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Freedom and acceptance

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Bhawna Sharma
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The document discusses the importance of acceptance of others and giving them freedom. It argues that we should not judge others or try to control them, as everyone's journey is different. We should accept that others will make mistakes and deal with challenges in their own way. By giving others freedom without judgment, it allows them and ourselves to grow. The conclusion emphasizes adopting an attitude of supreme acceptance of others, as people have different characters and we cannot change them, but must avoid becoming victims.

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PRESENTATION ON FREEDOM AND ACCEPTANCE OF OTHERS BY: DR.SUNIL SHARMA & Ms. BHAWNA SHARMA LOVELY PUBLIC SENIOR SECONDARY SCHOOL , P.D. VIHAR
Freedom and acceptance
FREEDOM AND ACCEPTANCE Each of us, in life, walks on the special path that the soul is destined to undertake. Our journeys are very different and we progress at different rates. The pitfalls and blessings we encounter are unique, yet we are all learning and no one form of knowledge is more important than any other. Even so, when we observe others, it can be easy to pass judgment on their decisions and to assume their actions will correspond with what we feel is right.
But for every problem, there are a multitude of solutions. Everyone makes mistakes and, while watching others do so can be frustrating, it is important that you accept each person's unique way of doing things. Giving others the freedom to act in the way they feel are best without the fear of harsh judgments honors the capacity for growth that all people possess.
PRACTISE OF ACCEPTANCE It is helpful to practice accepting others as they are. Never judge the decisions of others based on the path you would have taken because every person lives by different values and experiences. Challenge is a universal concept, but we all deal with difficulties in our own way. Give others the space to fail, but don't harden your heart against their experience.
It isn't wise to try and fix people or control situations. You may feel compelled to intervene when difficulties arise, but it is important only to offer guidance when asked unless the person is involved in a truly dangerous situation or cannot act for themselves. Failure to choose the right path or to make enlightened decisions is simply another step on the journey. It is a means to experience and wisdom.
LEARNING TO GIVE FREEDOM TO OTHERS Letting go of the need to influence others does not discount offering loving support and it does not mean that you need to stop caring. It does mean stepping back, dissolving judgment, and gracefully allowing others! to live their own destinies. Giving others the freedom to blossom in their own journeys gives you the freedom to take more notice of your own. You may not condone the actions you see taking place, but your reactions will be more loving by letting them be. And you will be able to focus on just being yourself, confident that the path you take is as right, valid, and special as any other.
SELF CARE AND FREEDOM Self-care takes on a different dimension when we create freedom to be who we really are. Rather than do what we should do, we can begin to focus on what we uniquely need in our lives. As parents who care deeply about being fully present and engaged with children, I often hear self-judgment when a parent has a desire to be away or to stop playing with a child. You may have done the same thing I have and said to yourself, I chose to be a parent, I should be okay with playing with pokemon figures all day! When we fight against (or judge) our needs and emotions in the moment we invalidate who we are. We are doing the same things that were done to us as children. The admonitions to stop crying, stop being so shy, or stop being so loud, turn into all the shoulds or shouldnts we tell ourselves as parents. There is some reality that we may not get our needs met immediately when we are engaged parents.
SELF ACCEPTANCE: FREEDOM OF FEARLESS EXPRESSION When a person acts with complete confidence, even for insane purposes, it fills a void in us. Charismatic individuals make their followers do insane things by the force of their personalities. It proves the point that the force of a persons will, of his self acceptance, can be so strong that he can change the view of the masses. He can convince people that what he is doing or saying is beautiful. People become fully accepting in his presence, falling prey to his complete self-acceptance! Later on, they might wonder how they could have fallen under that spell. Self acceptance is very attractive. The one who is most congruent will control the situation. If your frame is strong enough, you can get away with anything. Self acceptance gives you the freedom for fearless expression.
EMOTIONAL ACCEPTANCE: FREEDOM TO BE HAPPY When life throws us in a turmoil, our first tendency is to look for external reasons. When someone we relate with behaves in a way that is not expected we try to find external reasons for their behavior and sometimes outright blame them. We feel let down by life and people around us when things dont go our way or the way we think they are supposed to be. To blame is futile and this emotional state is not only frustrating but also totally dis-empowering for us. In this state we can not create the magical life we want for us and others. Hence the first order of business when we feel hurt is to learn the practice and feeling of Acceptance.
Freedom and acceptance
Freedom and acceptance
CONCLUSION The most effective attitude to adopt is one of supreme acceptance. The world is full of people with different characters and temperaments. We all have a dark side, a tendency to manipulate, and aggressive desires. The most dangerous types are those who repress their desires or deny the existence of them, often acting them out in the most underhanded ways. Some people have dark qualities that are especially pronounced. You cannot change such people at their core, but must merely avoid becoming their victim. You are an observer of the human comedy, and by being as tolerant as possible, you gain a much greater ability to understand people and to influence their behavior when necessary
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  • 1. PRESENTATION ON FREEDOM AND ACCEPTANCE OF OTHERS BY: DR.SUNIL SHARMA & Ms. BHAWNA SHARMA LOVELY PUBLIC SENIOR SECONDARY SCHOOL , P.D. VIHAR
  • 3. FREEDOM AND ACCEPTANCE Each of us, in life, walks on the special path that the soul is destined to undertake. Our journeys are very different and we progress at different rates. The pitfalls and blessings we encounter are unique, yet we are all learning and no one form of knowledge is more important than any other. Even so, when we observe others, it can be easy to pass judgment on their decisions and to assume their actions will correspond with what we feel is right.
  • 4. But for every problem, there are a multitude of solutions. Everyone makes mistakes and, while watching others do so can be frustrating, it is important that you accept each person's unique way of doing things. Giving others the freedom to act in the way they feel are best without the fear of harsh judgments honors the capacity for growth that all people possess.
  • 5. PRACTISE OF ACCEPTANCE It is helpful to practice accepting others as they are. Never judge the decisions of others based on the path you would have taken because every person lives by different values and experiences. Challenge is a universal concept, but we all deal with difficulties in our own way. Give others the space to fail, but don't harden your heart against their experience.
  • 6. It isn't wise to try and fix people or control situations. You may feel compelled to intervene when difficulties arise, but it is important only to offer guidance when asked unless the person is involved in a truly dangerous situation or cannot act for themselves. Failure to choose the right path or to make enlightened decisions is simply another step on the journey. It is a means to experience and wisdom.
  • 7. LEARNING TO GIVE FREEDOM TO OTHERS Letting go of the need to influence others does not discount offering loving support and it does not mean that you need to stop caring. It does mean stepping back, dissolving judgment, and gracefully allowing others! to live their own destinies. Giving others the freedom to blossom in their own journeys gives you the freedom to take more notice of your own. You may not condone the actions you see taking place, but your reactions will be more loving by letting them be. And you will be able to focus on just being yourself, confident that the path you take is as right, valid, and special as any other.
  • 8. SELF CARE AND FREEDOM Self-care takes on a different dimension when we create freedom to be who we really are. Rather than do what we should do, we can begin to focus on what we uniquely need in our lives. As parents who care deeply about being fully present and engaged with children, I often hear self-judgment when a parent has a desire to be away or to stop playing with a child. You may have done the same thing I have and said to yourself, I chose to be a parent, I should be okay with playing with pokemon figures all day! When we fight against (or judge) our needs and emotions in the moment we invalidate who we are. We are doing the same things that were done to us as children. The admonitions to stop crying, stop being so shy, or stop being so loud, turn into all the shoulds or shouldnts we tell ourselves as parents. There is some reality that we may not get our needs met immediately when we are engaged parents.
  • 9. SELF ACCEPTANCE: FREEDOM OF FEARLESS EXPRESSION When a person acts with complete confidence, even for insane purposes, it fills a void in us. Charismatic individuals make their followers do insane things by the force of their personalities. It proves the point that the force of a persons will, of his self acceptance, can be so strong that he can change the view of the masses. He can convince people that what he is doing or saying is beautiful. People become fully accepting in his presence, falling prey to his complete self-acceptance! Later on, they might wonder how they could have fallen under that spell. Self acceptance is very attractive. The one who is most congruent will control the situation. If your frame is strong enough, you can get away with anything. Self acceptance gives you the freedom for fearless expression.
  • 10. EMOTIONAL ACCEPTANCE: FREEDOM TO BE HAPPY When life throws us in a turmoil, our first tendency is to look for external reasons. When someone we relate with behaves in a way that is not expected we try to find external reasons for their behavior and sometimes outright blame them. We feel let down by life and people around us when things dont go our way or the way we think they are supposed to be. To blame is futile and this emotional state is not only frustrating but also totally dis-empowering for us. In this state we can not create the magical life we want for us and others. Hence the first order of business when we feel hurt is to learn the practice and feeling of Acceptance.
  • 13. CONCLUSION The most effective attitude to adopt is one of supreme acceptance. The world is full of people with different characters and temperaments. We all have a dark side, a tendency to manipulate, and aggressive desires. The most dangerous types are those who repress their desires or deny the existence of them, often acting them out in the most underhanded ways. Some people have dark qualities that are especially pronounced. You cannot change such people at their core, but must merely avoid becoming their victim. You are an observer of the human comedy, and by being as tolerant as possible, you gain a much greater ability to understand people and to influence their behavior when necessary