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From destructive
competition to
constructive
competition
Where competition helps  and where it hurts
Competition brings out
the best in things and
the worst in people.
Does it have to be like that?
Constructive Competition example
Djokovic: Federer and
Nadal have made me
better players
We are meant for more than competition
Competition is a fact of life,
but it is not the only fact of
life
From animals to humans:
from survival of the fittest to
sacrifice by the fittest
You are unique  like everyone else
Focus on what your contribution
is, not on what your competition is
We all can contribute to shaping a
better world if we can focus on
how we can do better, not on how
we can do better than others
Expanding our consciousness
Scarcity mentality: There is only
so much pie"
vs
Abundance mentality: There is
enough pie for me; I just need to
discover it
Look inwards
What lies behind us and what
lies before us are tiny matters
compared to what lies within
us
- Oliver Wendell Holme
Our attitude matters more than our competition
What holds us back is
not what we are, but
what we think we
arent
Our attitude matters more than our competition
Creativity is not a
competition.
Eg flower just blossoms,
doesnt seek to be better
than an adjacent flower
Focus on what you can bring out
We have talents and
capacities we dont know
about
Eg Inheritance with buried
treasure in backyard
Thought-exercise
Think of a time when you
discovered that you
could do something you
had thought you couldnt
Destructive Competitions
destructive results
Everybody is a genius. But
if you judge a fish by its
ability to climb a tree, it will
live its whole life believing
that it is stupid.
- Attributed to Einstein
Destructive competition -> Disaster
Growth is natural &
desirable
Cancer also features growth,
but it is disharmonious &
destructive
Destructive competition
In action: We sabotage
others so that they dont
succeed
Eg. Crabs in well keep each
other down
Destructive competition
In intention: We sabotage
ourselves by our negative
comparisons
Eg. Ant moving south on an
elephant moving north
Towards constructive competition
See others as spurs, not
threats
Compare yourself with
yourself
Spiritual perspective
We have been provided
what we need for our
existence, why not for our
success?
Eg. Food & Digestion
The power of conscious intention
When we exert our full
power with positive intent,
we attract powers beyond
ours to cooperate
Thought-exercise
Think of a time when
factors beyond you
facilitated you in
achieving something
important
Achievement & Fulfillment
We may not achieve all our
dreams,
But when we focus on
contribution, not competition,
our achievement brings
fulfillment

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