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How To Attract Women Passively Through Your Lifestyle

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More free content: https://www.lovelifesolved.com/ Money, looks, and fame are the usual suspects when it comes to what women find attractive. However, most people dont bother to think more deeply than that. How did these people come into money? What did they invest to look like they do? What did they pass up to become famous? Upon closer inspection, it becomes clear that a certain lifestyle and decisions lead them there. And this lifestyle is the true aphrodisiac. In this presentation youll learn: - The elements that must not miss in your lifestyle. - Why men like Ryan Gosling are so damn attractive to women. - Why you should do everything you can outside of your home. - What you think is a character trait might just be the result of your lifestyle.

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How to Attract Women Passively Through Your Lifestyle by Julian Reisinger
Hey! Its me, Julian.
I am the guy behind Love Life Solved, which I run just for fun as a way to share my personal experiences from well over 10 years in the dating & love advice industry as a client, assistant to a coach, business owner, and published writer. All for free.
My main job is being a co-founder over at Reconnected, a full circle coaching agency for all things love, social, and personal life. Its unlike anything else in the industry. CHECK IT OUT
The most desirable men never seem to concern themselves with becoming better with women.
Or can you imagine Ryan Gosling memorizing pickup lines?
Women somehow just seem to flock to them, as if drawn by some mysterious magnetism.
How To Attract Women Passively Through Your Lifestyle
The reason for this doesnt lie in looks, money, or fame. (although all three are factors)
It lies in the lifestyle that leads to money and looks and fame.
Ill explain the concept of lifestyle with a sports example:
To be successful, an athlete needs to build an environment that keeps them 鍖t, healthy, and mentally resilient.
And they have a team of helpers for all these aspects.
Physicians, video analysts, psychologists, massage therapists, nutritionists, assistants,
When an athlete feels down, they have people in their environment that will lift them up, no matter if they feel like seeing people or not.
When an athlete needs to eat, they dont stop at a burger drive-through but are greeted by a freshly cooked nutritious meal when they return home.
When an athlete prepares for a match, they dont have to tape their opponents for video analysis. A coach does it for them.
Athletes know that success is only possible if their whole lifestyle is geared towards their success.
Now lets apply the same principle to dating success.
Many regular folks seem to think that success with the most desirable women is possible despite them living a solitary life in an uncleaned apartment eating leftover pizza while playing video games.
How To Attract Women Passively Through Your Lifestyle
Here is the truth:
Yes, you can have a horrible lifestyle a still find a woman.
But you wont exactly be attracting Margot Robbie or Ariana Grande that way.
L E S S O N # 1 If you want to be with a high- quality woman you need the lifestyle of a high-quality man.
What elements must not miss from the lifestyle of a high-quality man?
Ful鍖lling basic prerequisites every high-quality person has. E L E M E N T # 1
There are certain things that high-quality people just take for granted.
And if you dont have these prerequisites, then you dont even show up on their radar.
Here are the most important ones:
Good Bodily Hygiene No beautiful woman was ever into a guy who didnt shower, brush his teeth, and clip his toenails.
You can see if your personal hygiene is up to date with this checklist I put together. DOWNLOAD IT HERE
Having Your Shit Together A man who cant keep his life organized surely isnt mature enough for a relationship with a woman who is and Ive never met a high-quality woman who hasnt had her shit together.
Decent Job and Education Having a stable, reasonably paid job is rarely a bad thing and for most high-quality women its a must have. You dont need to make millions, but you need to be able to make ends meet.
Active Social Life In peoples minds there must be something seriously wrong with a guy who doesnt have any friends. The same is true for someone who doesnt have any passions or interests.
Keeping your mind busy with living, not with women. E L E M E N T # 2
A focus on yourself builds a habit of self-care, which keeps you fit and healthy, improves your career, and nurtures your social circle.
A focus on women makes you needy, boring, and exhausting to be around.
F O C U S O N R E S U LT Women Sex Proving to your friends that you can get the hottest girls Enjoying life Improving yourself Being a great friend Needy, egotistical man without real friends, who is boring and a pain in the ass to be around. Man who is happy, has interesting stories to tell, and is a positive and fun person to be around.
F O C U S O N R E S U LT Women Sex Proving to your friends that you can get the hottest girls Enjoying life Improving yourself Being a great friend massively unattractive massively attractive
L E S S O N # 2 Always be more invested in yourself than in women.
Passively meeting new, attractive women regularly. E L E M E N T # 3
An actor meets new attractive women passively though his job.
The same is true for musicians, photographers, designers, barkeepers, and many other jobs.
If you work in a job like that you automatically train your conversation skills with actual women, every single day!
Just imagine how skilled at conversing and how desensitised against beauty youd be if you had practiced every day for years.
This is the main reason why the Ryan Goslings and George Clooneys of the world are so damn attractive to women.
Not all of us work in professions that get us in touch with women, though.
Especially the traditionally male-dominated finance and technology industries have this problem, but many other jobs as well.
Thats why you need to compensate with social spare time activities.
Most peoples way to achieve this is by going out to bars and night clubs.
How To Attract Women Passively Through Your Lifestyle
But, at least to me, stuffing myself into a filthy, dark, loud and overpriced venue, only to stand around and try to look as cool as possible, never made much sense.
I always loved doing different sports, so the natural route for me was to join sports clubs.
But you are different and there is not just one way to meet women passively though your spare time activities.
Other possible options are art workshops, dance classes, book clubs, networking events, travel meetups, study groups, excursions, competitions,
L E S S O N # 3 Find an enjoyable activity that allows you to meet new women passively and your romantic success rate will soar.
Moving as many activities as possible from indoors to outdoors. E L E M E N T # 3
Everything, besides sleeping, that you do at home you can also do outside somewhere.
And when you do, there are usually others who do the same.
How To Attract Women Passively Through Your Lifestyle
This makes talking to new people much easier, builds a habit of socializing with strangers and, thus, alleviates social anxiety.
As an added benefit, leaving your home forces you to get dressed, groomed, get some sunlight and breath in fresh air.
It acts like a stop sign for self- isolation and letting yourself go.
L E S S O N # 4 Move as many activities as possible from the comfort of your home to the world out there.
Saying YES to opportunities that could lead to romantic success independently of others. E L E M E N T # 4
Last summer I played some beach volleyball with a friend and a few women he had met prior to my arrival.
We had a ton of fun and at the end of the day the girls asked us if we wanted to go out with them.
I, being in a relationship, said Thx, but no thx!
But my friend said, Yes!
Even though I bailed on him, he was confident enough to join the girls alone.
How To Attract Women Passively Through Your Lifestyle
And guess what, he ended up with a really sexy, happiness exuding, life-loving, beach volleyball-playing lady that night.
It might strike you as obvious to say yes to such an opportunity.
But if it was, I wouldnt get to hear so many examples of guys who were not ready for success.
Lack of hygiene, uncleaned apartments, panic attacks, parents or friends intruding, The list goes on and on.
L E S S O N # 5 Always be ready for the best case to happen.
Dont let emotions control your life. Act in spite of them. E L E M E N T # 5
Many people dont realize that their negative emotions arent a genetically given but a result of their harmful lifestyle.
I was one of these people.
For years, I used to sit at home all day and work mostly from my living room.
And after work, I turned on my PC or console and played League of Legends or GTA.
As you can imagine, I didnt get in touch with other people much.
And as a result, I became increasingly scared of them.
This resulted in more isolation.
How To Attract Women Passively Through Your Lifestyle
It got so far that I started to believe I was such an extreme introvert that I just couldnt stand others and would always have to live in solitude.
Fortunately, at some point I realized that this development seriously impaired my ability to get the results that I wanted in life and love.
So I took counter measures.
Guess what, the more I escaped my self-created isolation chamber at home, the more I enjoyed socializing and being around people.
I still needed my alone time.
But the thought of being around other humans didnt scare me anymore.
On the contrary, it suddenly was something I looked forward to.
L E S S O N # 6 The things we believe to be unchangable parts of our character are often merely the result of our shitty lifestyles and can be changed just as easily.
But how can you build a new lifestyle despite already leading a busy life?
Like everyone else, youve only got 24 hours each day.
And 24 hours isnt enough time to do everything you want.
So youve got to prioritize.
Do you rather want to play video games at home or explore the city with an exciting woman?
Do you want to work in a job that isolates you from others or do you want to be surrounded by people who inspire and motivate you?
Do you want to live your life controlled by fear or do you want to make the most of this one chance youve been given?
Ultimately its all up to you.
If you value comfort and avoidance of fear and anxiety over a fulfilling life together with an exceptional woman then its perfectly fine to not change a thing.
But if you want to live like few people ever will, then you need to make decisions based on what their long-term consequences for your life are and not how uncomfortable they make you short term.
L E S S O N # 7 Every lifestyle choice you make bears consequences. Make sure you are aware of them and use them to your advantage.
Thats it for today.
Thank you so much for stopping by and listening to me!
Hopefully I could help out with a few tips.
If you liked this presentation, you will surely enjoy our other content. Just click the button below to check out more articles, slides, free downloads, and 30-day challenges. READ MORE FREE CONTENT WHATS NEXT?
Thanks for clicking through the whole thing! Best,
LOV E LI FE SOLVED Becaus e life is better together.

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How To Attract Women Passively Through Your Lifestyle

  • 1. How to Attract Women Passively Through Your Lifestyle by Julian Reisinger
  • 2. Hey! Its me, Julian.
  • 3. I am the guy behind Love Life Solved, which I run just for fun as a way to share my personal experiences from well over 10 years in the dating & love advice industry as a client, assistant to a coach, business owner, and published writer. All for free.
  • 4. My main job is being a co-founder over at Reconnected, a full circle coaching agency for all things love, social, and personal life. Its unlike anything else in the industry. CHECK IT OUT
  • 5. The most desirable men never seem to concern themselves with becoming better with women.
  • 6. Or can you imagine Ryan Gosling memorizing pickup lines?
  • 7. Women somehow just seem to flock to them, as if drawn by some mysterious magnetism.
  • 9. The reason for this doesnt lie in looks, money, or fame. (although all three are factors)
  • 10. It lies in the lifestyle that leads to money and looks and fame.
  • 11. Ill explain the concept of lifestyle with a sports example:
  • 12. To be successful, an athlete needs to build an environment that keeps them 鍖t, healthy, and mentally resilient.
  • 13. And they have a team of helpers for all these aspects.
  • 14. Physicians, video analysts, psychologists, massage therapists, nutritionists, assistants,
  • 15. When an athlete feels down, they have people in their environment that will lift them up, no matter if they feel like seeing people or not.
  • 16. When an athlete needs to eat, they dont stop at a burger drive-through but are greeted by a freshly cooked nutritious meal when they return home.
  • 17. When an athlete prepares for a match, they dont have to tape their opponents for video analysis. A coach does it for them.
  • 18. Athletes know that success is only possible if their whole lifestyle is geared towards their success.
  • 19. Now lets apply the same principle to dating success.
  • 20. Many regular folks seem to think that success with the most desirable women is possible despite them living a solitary life in an uncleaned apartment eating leftover pizza while playing video games.
  • 22. Here is the truth:
  • 23. Yes, you can have a horrible lifestyle a still find a woman.
  • 24. But you wont exactly be attracting Margot Robbie or Ariana Grande that way.
  • 25. L E S S O N # 1 If you want to be with a high- quality woman you need the lifestyle of a high-quality man.
  • 26. What elements must not miss from the lifestyle of a high-quality man?
  • 27. Ful鍖lling basic prerequisites every high-quality person has. E L E M E N T # 1
  • 28. There are certain things that high-quality people just take for granted.
  • 29. And if you dont have these prerequisites, then you dont even show up on their radar.
  • 30. Here are the most important ones:
  • 31. Good Bodily Hygiene No beautiful woman was ever into a guy who didnt shower, brush his teeth, and clip his toenails.
  • 32. You can see if your personal hygiene is up to date with this checklist I put together. DOWNLOAD IT HERE
  • 33. Having Your Shit Together A man who cant keep his life organized surely isnt mature enough for a relationship with a woman who is and Ive never met a high-quality woman who hasnt had her shit together.
  • 34. Decent Job and Education Having a stable, reasonably paid job is rarely a bad thing and for most high-quality women its a must have. You dont need to make millions, but you need to be able to make ends meet.
  • 35. Active Social Life In peoples minds there must be something seriously wrong with a guy who doesnt have any friends. The same is true for someone who doesnt have any passions or interests.
  • 36. Keeping your mind busy with living, not with women. E L E M E N T # 2
  • 37. A focus on yourself builds a habit of self-care, which keeps you fit and healthy, improves your career, and nurtures your social circle.
  • 38. A focus on women makes you needy, boring, and exhausting to be around.
  • 39. F O C U S O N R E S U LT Women Sex Proving to your friends that you can get the hottest girls Enjoying life Improving yourself Being a great friend Needy, egotistical man without real friends, who is boring and a pain in the ass to be around. Man who is happy, has interesting stories to tell, and is a positive and fun person to be around.
  • 40. F O C U S O N R E S U LT Women Sex Proving to your friends that you can get the hottest girls Enjoying life Improving yourself Being a great friend massively unattractive massively attractive
  • 41. L E S S O N # 2 Always be more invested in yourself than in women.
  • 42. Passively meeting new, attractive women regularly. E L E M E N T # 3
  • 43. An actor meets new attractive women passively though his job.
  • 44. The same is true for musicians, photographers, designers, barkeepers, and many other jobs.
  • 45. If you work in a job like that you automatically train your conversation skills with actual women, every single day!
  • 46. Just imagine how skilled at conversing and how desensitised against beauty youd be if you had practiced every day for years.
  • 47. This is the main reason why the Ryan Goslings and George Clooneys of the world are so damn attractive to women.
  • 48. Not all of us work in professions that get us in touch with women, though.
  • 49. Especially the traditionally male-dominated finance and technology industries have this problem, but many other jobs as well.
  • 50. Thats why you need to compensate with social spare time activities.
  • 51. Most peoples way to achieve this is by going out to bars and night clubs.
  • 53. But, at least to me, stuffing myself into a filthy, dark, loud and overpriced venue, only to stand around and try to look as cool as possible, never made much sense.
  • 54. I always loved doing different sports, so the natural route for me was to join sports clubs.
  • 55. But you are different and there is not just one way to meet women passively though your spare time activities.
  • 56. Other possible options are art workshops, dance classes, book clubs, networking events, travel meetups, study groups, excursions, competitions,
  • 57. L E S S O N # 3 Find an enjoyable activity that allows you to meet new women passively and your romantic success rate will soar.
  • 58. Moving as many activities as possible from indoors to outdoors. E L E M E N T # 3
  • 59. Everything, besides sleeping, that you do at home you can also do outside somewhere.
  • 60. And when you do, there are usually others who do the same.
  • 62. This makes talking to new people much easier, builds a habit of socializing with strangers and, thus, alleviates social anxiety.
  • 63. As an added benefit, leaving your home forces you to get dressed, groomed, get some sunlight and breath in fresh air.
  • 64. It acts like a stop sign for self- isolation and letting yourself go.
  • 65. L E S S O N # 4 Move as many activities as possible from the comfort of your home to the world out there.
  • 66. Saying YES to opportunities that could lead to romantic success independently of others. E L E M E N T # 4
  • 67. Last summer I played some beach volleyball with a friend and a few women he had met prior to my arrival.
  • 68. We had a ton of fun and at the end of the day the girls asked us if we wanted to go out with them.
  • 69. I, being in a relationship, said Thx, but no thx!
  • 70. But my friend said, Yes!
  • 71. Even though I bailed on him, he was confident enough to join the girls alone.
  • 73. And guess what, he ended up with a really sexy, happiness exuding, life-loving, beach volleyball-playing lady that night.
  • 74. It might strike you as obvious to say yes to such an opportunity.
  • 75. But if it was, I wouldnt get to hear so many examples of guys who were not ready for success.
  • 76. Lack of hygiene, uncleaned apartments, panic attacks, parents or friends intruding, The list goes on and on.
  • 77. L E S S O N # 5 Always be ready for the best case to happen.
  • 78. Dont let emotions control your life. Act in spite of them. E L E M E N T # 5
  • 79. Many people dont realize that their negative emotions arent a genetically given but a result of their harmful lifestyle.
  • 80. I was one of these people.
  • 81. For years, I used to sit at home all day and work mostly from my living room.
  • 82. And after work, I turned on my PC or console and played League of Legends or GTA.
  • 83. As you can imagine, I didnt get in touch with other people much.
  • 84. And as a result, I became increasingly scared of them.
  • 85. This resulted in more isolation.
  • 87. It got so far that I started to believe I was such an extreme introvert that I just couldnt stand others and would always have to live in solitude.
  • 88. Fortunately, at some point I realized that this development seriously impaired my ability to get the results that I wanted in life and love.
  • 89. So I took counter measures.
  • 90. Guess what, the more I escaped my self-created isolation chamber at home, the more I enjoyed socializing and being around people.
  • 91. I still needed my alone time.
  • 92. But the thought of being around other humans didnt scare me anymore.
  • 93. On the contrary, it suddenly was something I looked forward to.
  • 94. L E S S O N # 6 The things we believe to be unchangable parts of our character are often merely the result of our shitty lifestyles and can be changed just as easily.
  • 95. But how can you build a new lifestyle despite already leading a busy life?
  • 96. Like everyone else, youve only got 24 hours each day.
  • 97. And 24 hours isnt enough time to do everything you want.
  • 98. So youve got to prioritize.
  • 99. Do you rather want to play video games at home or explore the city with an exciting woman?
  • 100. Do you want to work in a job that isolates you from others or do you want to be surrounded by people who inspire and motivate you?
  • 101. Do you want to live your life controlled by fear or do you want to make the most of this one chance youve been given?
  • 102. Ultimately its all up to you.
  • 103. If you value comfort and avoidance of fear and anxiety over a fulfilling life together with an exceptional woman then its perfectly fine to not change a thing.
  • 104. But if you want to live like few people ever will, then you need to make decisions based on what their long-term consequences for your life are and not how uncomfortable they make you short term.
  • 105. L E S S O N # 7 Every lifestyle choice you make bears consequences. Make sure you are aware of them and use them to your advantage.
  • 106. Thats it for today.
  • 107. Thank you so much for stopping by and listening to me!
  • 108. Hopefully I could help out with a few tips.
  • 109. If you liked this presentation, you will surely enjoy our other content. Just click the button below to check out more articles, slides, free downloads, and 30-day challenges. READ MORE FREE CONTENT WHATS NEXT?
  • 110. Thanks for clicking through the whole thing! Best,
  • 111. LOV E LI FE SOLVED Becaus e life is better together.