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How to Know When
She Wants You to
Make a Move
by Nick Notas
Hey there!
Im Nick Notas.
Im a dating and con
fi
dence coach for
men. Ive helped thousands of men
conquer their fears, build genuine self-
esteem, and develop charismatic social
skills for the last 11 years.
Some people believe romantic
opportunities are out of our control
That theyre a combination of chance
and being in the right place, at the
right time.
But the men who consistently
succeed in dating have an innate
ability that sets them apart:
They recognize subtle hints from
women to consistently create
their own opportunities.
The vast majority of women
are NOT going to make the
first move.
Theyre not going to tell you, Hey dummy, Im ready to be
kissed!
Women are usually going to be
less obvious than that when
showing interest.
Here are the three main ways
women signal their interest and
how you can make the most of it:
1. Proximity and eye
contact
Women show that they want to
talk to you through approach
invitations.
She goes out of her way in a bar,
club, or party to stand next to
you. Especially if she lingers or
keeps glancing at you. Be direct
and talk to her, Hey, whats up?
She makes prolonged or repeated
eye contact while smiling at you
from across the room. Walk over
to her and simply introduce
yourself.


Be playful if you want, You know
its rude to just stare and not say
hello.
She touches you in passing. She
may run her hand across your
shoulder or back while walking
by. Go after her and say hello
with a hand on her shoulder.
2. Accepting and
returning
fl
irting
Flirt with her  verbally or
physically. If she reciprocates or
doesnt deny your advances,
continue being more flirtatious.
She touches your arm when you
talk to her or make her laugh.
Return that physical contact and
work your way toward mid/high
level touches.
She gets close to your face,
touches your face, or looks deep
into your eyes for an extended
period of time. This is usually a
sign shes ready to be kissed. So
do it.
She plays with or runs her fingers
through your hair. You can
continue with an intimate caress
on her thigh or pull her in for a
kiss.
3. Investing in you
The more time and energy a girl
invests in you, the more likely she
wants the connection to move
forward.
offers her number to you first


reaches out to you first over text


suggests hanging out with you
first
First o
ff
, if she:
Then shes really invested in you. Push
towards meeting up with her ASAP.
Some other examples of her
investing in you are
She mentions your girlfriend even
though she doesnt know if you have
one


She asks about your plans for the
weekend


She spends as much time as possible
with you and has an excuse to be
around
When you approach a random
girl and she stays to talk to you
for more than 30 seconds 
exchange numbers before you
leave.
When she says she would love to
see a new place, venue, or show
with you  make concrete plans
right then and there.
If she talks to you for more than
5-15 minutes at a bar  go get a
drink with her or take a seat
together.
If she asks you about what youre doing later, then make plans to
move with her somewhere else or invite her back to your place.
When she answers or asks
intimate questions, or talks about
anything sexual  continue with
deeper and more sexual topics or
kiss her.
If she hangs out with you in a more isolated environment at night on a
date, this shows shes comfortable with you. She has to risk being alone
with a new guy. Move close to her, get more physical, and go for a kiss.
When she doesnt give a clear no to ending the night, playfully lead that you
should still hang out. Suggest showing her your record collection, watching
the show you talked about, or invite her to hang on your roof deck.
MILTON BERLE
If opportunity doesnt knock, build
a door.
Recognize a womans hints if they
appear but dont live and die by them.
Dont wait or obsess over getting the
perfect opportunity.
If you like her, lead with your interest
and then see how she responds. 
And while these signs are good
indicators, the only way to know shes
into you is to make a move.

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How To Know When She Wants You To Make A Move

  • 1. How to Know When She Wants You to Make a Move by Nick Notas
  • 4. Im a dating and con fi dence coach for men. Ive helped thousands of men conquer their fears, build genuine self- esteem, and develop charismatic social skills for the last 11 years.
  • 5. Some people believe romantic opportunities are out of our control That theyre a combination of chance and being in the right place, at the right time.
  • 6. But the men who consistently succeed in dating have an innate ability that sets them apart:
  • 7. They recognize subtle hints from women to consistently create their own opportunities.
  • 8. The vast majority of women are NOT going to make the first move.
  • 9. Theyre not going to tell you, Hey dummy, Im ready to be kissed!
  • 10. Women are usually going to be less obvious than that when showing interest.
  • 11. Here are the three main ways women signal their interest and how you can make the most of it:
  • 12. 1. Proximity and eye contact Women show that they want to talk to you through approach invitations.
  • 13. She goes out of her way in a bar, club, or party to stand next to you. Especially if she lingers or keeps glancing at you. Be direct and talk to her, Hey, whats up?
  • 14. She makes prolonged or repeated eye contact while smiling at you from across the room. Walk over to her and simply introduce yourself. Be playful if you want, You know its rude to just stare and not say hello.
  • 15. She touches you in passing. She may run her hand across your shoulder or back while walking by. Go after her and say hello with a hand on her shoulder.
  • 16. 2. Accepting and returning fl irting Flirt with her verbally or physically. If she reciprocates or doesnt deny your advances, continue being more flirtatious.
  • 17. She touches your arm when you talk to her or make her laugh. Return that physical contact and work your way toward mid/high level touches.
  • 18. She gets close to your face, touches your face, or looks deep into your eyes for an extended period of time. This is usually a sign shes ready to be kissed. So do it.
  • 19. She plays with or runs her fingers through your hair. You can continue with an intimate caress on her thigh or pull her in for a kiss.
  • 20. 3. Investing in you The more time and energy a girl invests in you, the more likely she wants the connection to move forward.
  • 21. offers her number to you first reaches out to you first over text suggests hanging out with you first First o ff , if she:
  • 22. Then shes really invested in you. Push towards meeting up with her ASAP.
  • 23. Some other examples of her investing in you are
  • 24. She mentions your girlfriend even though she doesnt know if you have one She asks about your plans for the weekend She spends as much time as possible with you and has an excuse to be around
  • 25. When you approach a random girl and she stays to talk to you for more than 30 seconds exchange numbers before you leave.
  • 26. When she says she would love to see a new place, venue, or show with you make concrete plans right then and there.
  • 27. If she talks to you for more than 5-15 minutes at a bar go get a drink with her or take a seat together.
  • 28. If she asks you about what youre doing later, then make plans to move with her somewhere else or invite her back to your place.
  • 29. When she answers or asks intimate questions, or talks about anything sexual continue with deeper and more sexual topics or kiss her.
  • 30. If she hangs out with you in a more isolated environment at night on a date, this shows shes comfortable with you. She has to risk being alone with a new guy. Move close to her, get more physical, and go for a kiss.
  • 31. When she doesnt give a clear no to ending the night, playfully lead that you should still hang out. Suggest showing her your record collection, watching the show you talked about, or invite her to hang on your roof deck.
  • 32. MILTON BERLE If opportunity doesnt knock, build a door.
  • 33. Recognize a womans hints if they appear but dont live and die by them. Dont wait or obsess over getting the perfect opportunity.
  • 34. If you like her, lead with your interest and then see how she responds. And while these signs are good indicators, the only way to know shes into you is to make a move.