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What is a Friendship?
To Children Of course
The task we chose focused
on exploring the selfconcepts and ideas of
friendships from the
perspective of a schoolaged child and a
preschooler. We
conducted an interview to
further analyze which stage
of friendship each child
was at depending on their
age.
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Quick Activity
Everyone take a moment to think about what the word
friendship means to you
Qualities you look for in a friend?
How you act toward your friends?
What good friends do vs. What bad friends do
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Harry Stack Sullivan
Three Stages Of Friendship
1.
First Stage (ages 2-5)
Relationship with parent or guardian is the primary focus for a
child at this stage.
2.
Second Stage (ages 4-8)
Child turns towards playmate and other children their age as
friends.
3.
Third Stage (ages 8-11)
Child displays new characteristic towards friendships
chumship
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Stage Theory Disclaimers
These Stages are not concrete
Chronological age is not reliable
A child does not have to go through every aspect of the stage
When asking about friendships there are often
inconsistencies in the responses
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The Interviews
There were several different interviews conducted in
the process of this project
Preschool aged
School aged
Child with Autism
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What We Learned
In conclusion, we discovered that all children see friendship
from varying perspectives. Essentially, their concepts of
friendship can be analyzed or simply made sense of by
friendship theories such as Selmans and Sullivans. Some of
the interviewees were right on the mark with some of the
stages while others demonstrated some parts of the stages
better than others. Through the process of completing our
project we too recognized what stages we fall under and if
we deem them to be accurate or not.