The document describes how the author lost a chess match in a school competition after underestimating his opponent. This loss caused him to realize he had a conceited attitude where he did not take opponents seriously. He then made an effort to change his attitude and treat all opponents with respect. He communicated this lesson to different people, including his parents and the opponent he lost to, and found they were supportive and wanted him to learn from the experience. The author now warns others against underestimating opponents based on his own lesson.
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2. Attitude is a little thing that makes a big difference.
--Churchill
4. I took part in a school level chess contest when I was
10 years old. I had an encounter with one of my
classmates in the semifinal. He almost never beat me
before. I lost because I underestimated my opponent.
It made me shift.
5. Before this contest, I was a little bit conceited.
Especially when I met something that I thought I was
familiar with. Until I met the opponent who had the
real strength, I didnt realize that what I did could be
no more wrong. After this contest, I knew I should
change my Attitude. I should treat everything
seriously and should not underestimate my
opponents.
6. If I underestimate my
opponents, I may give
them the opportunities
to see my flaws. Then
they would attack me in
a way I am not prepared
to defend myself against.
When I underestimate
my enemy, I will pay the
final price.
7. I communicated this shift to different people in
different ways and got different responses. I thought
deeply for what I should change and what I should
tell the others. In the one hand, I want to do some
explanation for myself that why I lost the game. In the
other hand, I hoped other people could learn from
my story.
8. I told my parents why I lost the game. They
encouraged me and told me that I should learn from
this lesson. To my surprise, my parents said that they
had already known that I have the weak point that I
was easy to be conceited. They just did not speak out
and let me learn from my own mistakes. I did really
appreciate what my parents did to me.
9. I also told my classmate who beat me in the
semifinal. He was a modest person and also one of
my best friends. He admitted that he did a lot of
preparation in order to increase the probability of
beating me in semifinal. He also said that he hope I
could be better and take my opponents seriously in
the future.
10. I have seen many people who underestimated their
opponents. I told them my story and hope they could
change their attitude. I persuaded some of them and
most of them did a good job. The other people who
ignore my dissuasion were finally failed to finish a
good work.
11. My coach used my story to warn his group after
group of trainees to let them know that the most
important thing in playing chess are not only skills
and proficiency but also attitude that never
underestimate the opponents.