My keynote at Lean Agile Scotland - my last at any UK agile conference. Marking the end of my active involvement with agile communities, this keynote talks of my battle with focus and my journey to say 'Yes' to as many things as I can - to help me learn, share and grow.
I discuss the why and how of saying 'Yes', tools I use to manage the madness and the benefits to my life thus far.
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LASCot - The Linky Art and Joy of Saying Yes to Almost Everything
1. The linky art
and joy of
saying yes to
almost
everything
Mike Sutton @lascot 2018
2. What about
Mike?
I thrive in
collaboration
Im addicted to ideas
and I love seeing them
turn to something
Im quite fond
of people
I get bored easily
Id quite like to be
really wealthy
Whats Linky?
A developer
for 25 years
an agile coach
for 12 years
An international
human rights lawyer
Ask what this is, win a
thing.
a Dad of four
a startup
founder
a husband to one
diagnosed with Frustrating
Sequentialism ok - thats not a thing,
but it should be
I practice getting what I want by
helping others get what they want
3. What do you do when
every path before you is
uncertain?
Photo byRobin LeltzonUnsplash
4. I choose to explore all
of them as efficiently as
I can,using data to guide
me.
Go Fishing
Decide on what counts
as a catch - what is
valuable to me
Make it as cheap
as possible to 鍖sh
Be open to the
possibilities
Explore within my means
Find creative ways to
increase my means
5. there is
method to the
madness
Make the
mental shift
rede鍖ne value
for me (WIIFM)
4 x no shows
3 x task dodgers
3 x committers
start here
network
friendship
growth
fun opportunity to
be wealthy
opportunity
to be useful
make a tree
shake
hint: it is usually saying Yes
identify the
minimum to be
done and do it.
be open to whatever
happens.
things are going to get busy,
make it visible.
See what you are doing
A little
discipline goes
a long way
I measure my working
day in pomodoros
decide how much
time you are willing to
invest (and when)
manage the 鍖ow
still say Yes all the time,
create fewer instances
when is that
value greatest?
de-couple Yes, to
whats next from what
might happen 10 steps
down the linedelink
your chain
make it easy
to say Yes
6. Tools I use
to manage the 鍖ow
I use https://calendly.com to
publish my contact hours
a trello board for the things
Im working on and what
stages they are / tasks
to see what Im
doing
storiesonboard.com - a user story mapping
app to visualise everything at every level
and shared with my collaborators, so we are
all in sync
to maintain tactical
focus /discipline
pomodoneapp.com - really cool/simple but
feature-fun pomodoro app that integrates with
Trello.
LinkedIn for engagement
and 鍖nding / be found for
interesting things to say
Yes to.
to 鍖nd
interesting
things
mostly Im found
7. sshh,here
comes the
science-ish bit
Optimise your
context & brain
side switching
it is just chemistry
make the exciting work
subsidise the boring work
rest / sleep is context too
Get new contexts to switch to - I knit.
Balance Left/Logic with Right/
Creativity
boring/tedious work needs more
endorphins to power through
the eternal DOSE dance (super simpli鍖ed)
Dopamine - major role in rewards/motivation,
Oxytocin - modulates fear/anxiety, helps feelings of love, trust, empathy
Serotonin - regulates happiness
Endorphin - handles your fear/鍖ight and pushing through
Get some sleep
and exercise
put more of the good
stu鍖 into your System 1
make things that make you happy
become habitual - 鍖ll up your
System 1. e.g. I use humour
Know thyself
what gets you excited?
what gets you zombi鍖ed?
what helps you disconnect?
what helps you laugh?
What are you prone to?
laugh a lot more and
with more people
helps keep serotonin and oxytocin
topped up. Regularly doing this
becomes habit
sleep lets things System
1 get updates
major source of
endorphins generation
eat better
a balanced diet low in highly
processed food seems to be the
best advice
8. for me now,it is
Joyful Hardship
Im happier
variety, industries, communities
more often
founder in 4
startups
people I actually
engage with
regularly
When I get tired, I
get exhausted
comprehensively depleted!
Im more con鍖dent in
my ability to be useful
my curated network
has grown 40% in 6
months
doing more things &
more things that are
diverse & interesting
3 x co-founders
1 x with funding
adviser to 3
startups
1x behavioural economics
1x ethical 鍖nance
co-writing
childrens stories
adventures of Doug, the
Linkybrain Kid
reinventing education
#XSchools
Progress
can be slow
especially those that Im
actively collaborating on
Im scared /anxious
more often
but for less time each time.
9. what is it for you?
questions
frustrations
hopes dreams
nightmares
your story
10. thank you
Ill say yes
to you
book a time to chat on
mhsutton.me/o鍖ce-hours
connect to the madness
on LinkedIn
Say Hello
mike+lascot2018@wizewerx.com
what are you going to say
Yes to?