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Are lawyers
excellent mediators ?
            Mediaton
      (in civil and commercial matters)


  Ankara Bar Association  ADR Center
             Ankara - Turkey




              Paul WOUTERS - Advocaat
Are lawyers excellent mediators ?
Statement :

Mediators help people solve their disputes

Question :

Lawyers are supposed to be dispute
  solvers  are they natural mediators ?

                 Paul WOUTERS - Advocaat
Lawyers are excellent mediators !
Presumption:
Presumption: Lawyers are trained in psychology
 They know how people make decisions and behave

Presumption:
Presumption: Lawyers are trained in sociology
 They know how society is organized and functions

Presumption:
Presumption: Lawyers are trained in philosophy
 they know what touches and motivates the inside of
  man




                    Paul WOUTERS - Advocaat
Lawyers are excellent mediators !
People go to lawyers for advice and help because
they respect and trust lawyers

People expect lawyers to help solve their
problems

Lawyers help landlords and tenants, husbands
and wives, criminals and victims: they are trained
to see the different sides of a coin

Lawyers know how to find and balance the
truth
                  Paul WOUTERS - Advocaat
Lawyers are excellent mediators !
Lawyers know the rules of how to draft valid
contracts

Lawyers know of public law, what can be done
                         law,
and what is legal or not legal

Lawyers know how to formulate agreements in
clear words, so their is no dispute possible
      words,

Lawyers are trained to communicate and to
convince

                  Paul WOUTERS - Advocaat
Lawyers are excellent mediators !
In a lawy office people of different cultures get
born-
born- married  have a car accident  divorce 
make a company  dissolve that company  have
a second marriage  make contracts and break
them  make testaments  inherit and decease

What takes a lifetime for other people to live,
happens every day in a law office

Lawyers have privileged positions for this respect
that hardly any other profession will offer

This knowledge and experience are excellent
source and basis for mediators
                   Paul WOUTERS - Advocaat
Lawyers are excellent mediators !


    Are these statements


  CORRECT ?
            Paul WOUTERS - Advocaat
Lawyers are excellent mediators !

Then:
Lawyers are experienced
problem solvers

Lawyers must be
excellent mediators !
            Paul WOUTERS - Advocaat
Lawyers are excellent mediators !


GOOOOOOO
OOOOOOOO
OOOOOOL
OOOOOOL !
            Paul WOUTERS - Advocaat
Lawyers are excellent mediators !




BUT ...
            Paul WOUTERS - Advocaat
Are lawyers excellent mediators ?
Lawyers are trained to analyze disputes

Lawyers are trained to translate warm factual /
emotional issues to cold legal boxes and frames

Lawyers are trained to isolate objective items
and apply them to rules that were designed to
settle types of issues and NOT to solve this
particular problem




                  Paul WOUTERS - Advocaat
Are lawyers excellent mediators ?
Lawyers are trained to translate the factual
/emotional / situational position of the client 
through cold legal reasoning  to a suitable and
strong legal position

Lawyers are trained defend that legal position

Lawyers are not trained to listen to the back
ground music behind the cold legal facts

Lawyers are even trained to neglect that (they
know the Courts are not really interested in that
information)
                  Paul WOUTERS - Advocaat
Are lawyers excellent mediators ?
Lawyers know that you have to ask MUCH in
order to get something ACCEPTABLE  that you
have to focus on your own strength and exploit
the other sides weakness

Lawyers know that the other party also has the
same tactic / position

Lawyers live in a confrontational environment
where the strongest survives



                  Paul WOUTERS - Advocaat
Are lawyers excellent mediators ?
Law and justice are designed to decide neutrally
and blind on issues and to make people accept
such decisons  to END disputes NOT to SOLVE
them

Most people are totally unaware of the legal
rules, but only have a primary notion of good and
bad

Since people do not know the law, they basically
do not care about it  people have a history and
emotions that lead to a certain act or omission
for which the law does not pay attantion

                  Paul WOUTERS - Advocaat
Are lawyers excellent mediators ?
In a court, people win and loose a case on the
basis of legal texts that they probably do not
understand and that certainly was not in their
mind when the facts occured or the decisions
made

An outside judge  barely knowing and
understanding the real story - makes an
outside decision based upon objective rules that
is supposed to extinguish a dispute



                  Paul WOUTERS - Advocaat
Are lawyers excellent mediators ?


Though they have an excellent basis, lawyers are
trained to be part of this cold, objective and
confrontational system

The mediation however requires a complete
different approach !




                 Paul WOUTERS - Advocaat
Lawyers can be
           excellent mediators !
In the trainings you will learn
   To listen to the people
   To help them reframe their way of looking at situations
   To help those people listen to the other party too
   To help people unwind their problems themselves
   To help people leave their positions  often influenced
    by the home front and translated to overinflated
    money claims
   To help people to look for solutions themselves
   To help people make agreements that solve disputes
    and not only end them
   Not to dig into positions, but keep away from them
   To be impartial in that process

                       Paul WOUTERS - Advocaat
Lawyers can be
            excellent mediators !


The combination of these skills together with their
  vast academical and legal background AND the
  unique position of the legal profession in society
  makes that well trained lawyers  amongst other
  candidates - are potential excellent mediators

But there is a lot to learn ...


                      Paul WOUTERS - Advocaat

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