This document appears to be a collection of emails sent by ashokpcare@gmail.com on various topics related to parenting and child development. It discusses identifying different types of intelligence in children, teaching children financial literacy using real-world examples and games, encouraging children to find their own strengths and passions, positive parenting strategies like active listening and problem-solving, and the importance of guiding children to reach their potential. The overall message is the significant role parents and teachers play in supporting children's learning and well-being.
12. IS YOUR CHILD A GENIUS?
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Financial Intelligence is not about how much money you
make, its about how much money you keep and how hard
that money works for you.
Different types of genius:
Verbal-linguistic
Numerical
Spatial
Physical
Intrapersonal
Interpersonal
Environmental
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13. HOW MANY WINNING FORMULAS WILL YOUR CHILD
NEED?
Your child
needs a
minimum
of 3
winning
formulas:
a winning learning formula
a winning professional formula
a winning financial formula
Encourage kids to find their own ways of
learning
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14. WILL YOUR CHILD BE OBSOLETE BY 30?
The older you are, the less valuable
you are.
You need to teach your kid to reinvent
himself or change his winning formula
if the current one is not working.
The best grades dont count, those with
the ability to adapt, learn new technology,
and offer fresh ideas will survive and thrive
in the Information Age.
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15. WILL YOUR CHILD BE ABLE TO RETIRE BEFORE 30?
Your kid should learn that getting a
job will not make him rich.
They could be programmed to never
have work at a job, but build
profession instead.
Encourage your child to find a way to
retire by thirty.
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16. KIDS LEARN BY PLAYING
Three steps
to learning:
Simple drawings
Play games like
monopoly and
cash flow for kids
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Real life
(submitting
monthly financial
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17. WAYS TO INCREASE YOUR CHILDS FINANCIAL IQ
Learning with real money.
Use simple words to explain money matters
to your child.
Arm your child with a good financial
vocabulary
Numbers will add more power to the
words.
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18. Any words, tone of voice, or body language
that influence a person sharing a problem
to end the communication.
Placating
CRITICIZING
Distracting
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19. Listen actively
Listen for feelings
Connect feelings to content
Look for alternatives/evaluate
consequences
Follow-up later
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20. Identify the problem with an I
Message.
Share thoughts and feelings.
Brainstorm possible solutions and
guidelines.
Choose a solution with logical
consequences if necessary.
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Follow-up to make sure agreements
were kept and logical consequences
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21. Negative Approach
Positive Approach
GOAL
Undue Attention-Seeking
Rebellion
Revenge
Undue Avoidance
Thrill Seeking
Contact / Belonging
Power
Protection
Withdrawal
Challenge
Contributing/Cooperating
Independence
Assertiveness/Forgiveness
Appropriate Avoidance
Safe Adventures
Power struggles: Dont fight and dont give in
T
Parent
F
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D
ACTIVE
PROBLEM
SOLVING
Identify the
problem
Share thoughts
and feelings
Brainstorm
solutions
Child
Choose a
solution
F
Follow up
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22. Stimulating Independence
Building on Strengths
Overprotecting & Pampering
Showing Confidence
Focusing on Mistakes
Valuing Child As Is
Expecting Too Little
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Expecting Too Much
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23. Event
Do
Teach them to express
their feelings respectfully.
Use respectful forms
of discipline.
Screen out negative influences
when we can
Be positive and encouraging
influences ourselves
Feel
Think
Help them build positive
values and character.
Encourage positive beliefs
and dispute mistaken ones.
Accept their feelings
even negative ones.
Encourage them to identify
and listen to their feelings.
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24. FINAL WORDS
The most important job in the
world is for parents and
teachers to
keep the light on,
to guide a lost child out of the
darkness and let him find his
own unique path to success.
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