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27. CUPCAKES AND THERMODYNAMICS
WHERETOTAKETHIS
Anger affects environment. Emotions are also something to steward.
Tags: Anger, Cupcakes, Thermodynamics, Emotions
The following is Seth Godins blog post
(sethgodin.typepad.com) on October 24th, 2013:
Does anger follow the laws of thermodynamics?
I have no idea what caused the guy in front of me
in traffic to be having a bad day.
Maybe he has a stressful meeting coming up, or
his butler burned his bacon at breakfast. Maybe
he's having trouble paying his rent, or his industry
is under siege. All I know is that he's weaving in
and out, giving people the finger and yelling at
other cars, all at the same time.
Unlike cupcakes, anger isn't conserved.
If I have a cupcake and I give it to you, I don't
have a cupcake any more. But if someone who is
angry gives you their anger, now you both might
have it.
You've seen it too many times before. Someone is
afraid, untethered or just upset about something
that happened long before you walked into the
room. Unbridled agita is dumped on you, spittle
flying, eyes wide, personal invective unfiltered.
Just feet away, the angry person is saying, "here,"
and dumping vitriol in your direction.
All connection gets severed, any chance for
positive engagement seems long gone. The oppor-
tunity, it seems, is to pick up some of that anger
and throw it right back, where it came from.
And now, of course, both of you are having a bad
day.
Sermon on Anger: Ephesians 4:26-31 says, If
you become angry, do not let your anger lead you
into sin, and do not stay angry all day. Don't give
the Devil a chance...Do not use harmful words,
but only helpful words, the kind that build up and
provide what is needed, so that what you say will
do good to those who hear you...Get rid of all
bitterness, passion, and anger. No more shouting
or insults, no more hateful feelings of any sort.
Dont let your anger lead you to sin, and dont
spread it to others. This is why scripture also says
that stupid people express their anger openly and
wise people hold it back and are patient. Anger
does not achieve Gods righteous purpose. Be
mindful of how you communicate your anger to
others. Every time you speak, you have the
opportunity to either build or destroy.
Shared anger destroys trust. It eliminates
dialogue. It activates the lizard brain of every-
one within earshot, and produces nothing of
value.
No credit goes to the person who vents, who
opens his spleen and shares his anger. No points
for bravery or honesty or getting in touch with
his feelings. Anger shared is not anger amelio-
rated.
Talk about it, don't talk with it. Point it out, and
then leave it there, on the floor, where, unen-
gaged, the anger can't help but wither and die.
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