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Unwanted             Pornography &            Other Forms of
Same Sex Attraction      Masturbation          Sexual & Relational
                          Addiction               Brokenness


                   Support those who struggle
              to grow in their relationship with God


                        Equip the church about
                        Equip the church
                          sexual temptation
            to understand the issues and grow in love
                       and some related issues
Comes from God            Comes from Satan
 Acknowledges Your Sin      Acknowledges Your Sin
   Upholds Your Value         Attacks Your Value
Drives Your Towards God   Drives You Away From God
     and His People             and His People

Bad Things  Worthless     Bad Things = Worthless

      GRACE                     WORKS
   Actions  Worth            Actions = Worth
1. God says we will
2. We are fallen
3. We live in a fallen world, which influences us
4. We have an enemy, who influences us
5. We have a built-in desire for sex
6. We have a built-in desire to be loved and
   valued
7. God gives us the freedom to choose
 King David

1. Physical Consequences
2. Emotional and Relational Consequences
3. Spiritual Consequences
 Truth
   Dont be deceived
   Know God, know yourself, know your triggers and
    how your sin works


 Healthy Relationships
   The only way to receive love and value
   Talk about yourself, confess your struggles
   Guilt and Shame
       Dont be a slave to the works mindset
   Be Encouraged
       Its normal for Christians to struggle sexually
   Be Rebuked
       God always forgives, but sexual sin still has consequences
   Have Hope
       Sexual struggles can be overcome, but you need truth
        (about God, yourself, your struggle) and love/respect
        (through healthy relationships/friendships)
1. Lust always promises what it cant ever deliver
2. God has a heritage of helping sexually troubled people
3. Everything that porn teaches you is a lie
4. Raising children in an ocean of porn
5. Thou Shalt Not Masturbate and other things the Bible
   doesnt say
6. Boundaries, burn out, and why putting others first can be
   selfish
7. How to renew your mind by taking every thought captive
8. Open questions
 Genesis 3  Eve lusts over the fruit
 Genesis 25  Esau lusts over Jacobs stew
 2 Samuel 13  Amnon lusts over his half-sister
 Joshua 2, 6  Rahab
     Matthew 1 - In Jesus Line! (Ruths Mother-in-Law!)
   Judges 13-16  Samson
   2 Samuel 11-12  King David
   John 4  The Samaritan Woman (at the well)
   John 8  The Adulteress
   Luke 7  The Sinful Woman (with the hair and tears)
     John 11  Its actually Mary (Martha and Lazarus sister)
 1 & 2 Corinthians  The Corinthian Church
 Shelley Lubben
      Former porn star and prostitute
      Got out of the sex industry and became a Christian
      Her story is confronting, but strips away the lies
      www.shelleylubben.com



 The Pink Cross
    Primary aim to reach out to workers in the sex
     industry (evangelism and physical care)
    Secondary aim to reach out to porn addicts
    www.thepinkcross.org
   You need to TALK about it!
        Foster an environment where anything and everything is OK to talk about
        They have questions, and if you dont satisfy them, theyll go looking for the answers
         elsewhere...
        First serious sex talk around age 10-12

   PREPARING them is better long-term than shielding them
        Clearly you cant shield them from everything: bus stops, poster ads, TV commercials, their
         friends
        Preparation promotes maturity, responsibility, and growth
        Be wise about timing: you dont want them to grow up too fast!

   You need to KNOW what they are watching, reading and playing
        Filters are helpful, but not a substitute for involvement in their activities

   Discussion
 Genesis 38:1-11  Onan treats his dead
  brothers wife like a prostitute
 Leviticus 15:1-18  Any bodily emissions make
  you unclean for a day (even semen, even
  during sex)
 Deuteronomy 23:9-11  Specific case of wet
  dream but still the same result as Leviticus
 So maybe masturbation isnt sinful, but lust certainly is:
       27 You  have heard that it was said, Do not commit adultery. 28 But I tell you,
       everyone who looks at a woman to lust for her has already committed adultery with
       her in his heart. 29 If your right eye causes you to sin, gouge it out and throw it away.
       For it is better that you lose one of the parts of your body than for your whole body
       to be thrown into hell. 30 And if your right hand causes you to sin, cut it off and throw
       it away. For it is better that you lose one of the parts of your body than for your
       whole body to go into hell!


 In my opinion:
      Married: Masturbation has no place in marriage
      Single: Masturbation trains you against healthy sex in marriage
      Regardless: Masturbation tends to addiction
      Maybe not sinful in itself for everyone, but it certainly was for me
Sexual temptation seminar
My
                  Responsibility




Someone Elses
 Responsibility
Feelings / Emotions
             Attitudes / Beliefs
            Behaviours / Actions

 Irresponsibility and Immaturity   Its not my fault, I had no
Avoidance (Blame or Manipulate)              choice...
                                                                        If I say No then Im a bad
                                   Its not really that bad...
   Selfishly ignore my problems                                                     person
                                                                   If they dont like me, then it must
                                                                            have been my fault.

                                       Overworked, Overloaded, and Burnt-out
          CRAVE RELIEF!!
                                           Stress, Anxiety, and Depression
         ESCAPE INTO SIN!!             Selfishly take everyone elses problems
 Ephesians 4  Take off old self, put on new
  self, renewing your mind

 Colossians 3  Put off old self, put on new self,
  renewed in knowledge

 2 Corinthians 10  The apostles take every
  thought captive to obey Christ
TRIGGER
             ACT OUT




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Sexual temptation seminar

  • 1. This powerpoint includes the full audio sermon. You will need to advance slides manually
  • 2. Unwanted Pornography & Other Forms of Same Sex Attraction Masturbation Sexual & Relational Addiction Brokenness Support those who struggle to grow in their relationship with God Equip the church about Equip the church sexual temptation to understand the issues and grow in love and some related issues
  • 3. Comes from God Comes from Satan Acknowledges Your Sin Acknowledges Your Sin Upholds Your Value Attacks Your Value Drives Your Towards God Drives You Away From God and His People and His People Bad Things Worthless Bad Things = Worthless GRACE WORKS Actions Worth Actions = Worth
  • 4. 1. God says we will 2. We are fallen 3. We live in a fallen world, which influences us 4. We have an enemy, who influences us 5. We have a built-in desire for sex 6. We have a built-in desire to be loved and valued 7. God gives us the freedom to choose
  • 5. King David 1. Physical Consequences 2. Emotional and Relational Consequences 3. Spiritual Consequences
  • 6. Truth Dont be deceived Know God, know yourself, know your triggers and how your sin works Healthy Relationships The only way to receive love and value Talk about yourself, confess your struggles
  • 7. Guilt and Shame Dont be a slave to the works mindset Be Encouraged Its normal for Christians to struggle sexually Be Rebuked God always forgives, but sexual sin still has consequences Have Hope Sexual struggles can be overcome, but you need truth (about God, yourself, your struggle) and love/respect (through healthy relationships/friendships)
  • 8. 1. Lust always promises what it cant ever deliver 2. God has a heritage of helping sexually troubled people 3. Everything that porn teaches you is a lie 4. Raising children in an ocean of porn 5. Thou Shalt Not Masturbate and other things the Bible doesnt say 6. Boundaries, burn out, and why putting others first can be selfish 7. How to renew your mind by taking every thought captive 8. Open questions
  • 9. Genesis 3 Eve lusts over the fruit Genesis 25 Esau lusts over Jacobs stew 2 Samuel 13 Amnon lusts over his half-sister
  • 10. Joshua 2, 6 Rahab Matthew 1 - In Jesus Line! (Ruths Mother-in-Law!) Judges 13-16 Samson 2 Samuel 11-12 King David John 4 The Samaritan Woman (at the well) John 8 The Adulteress Luke 7 The Sinful Woman (with the hair and tears) John 11 Its actually Mary (Martha and Lazarus sister) 1 & 2 Corinthians The Corinthian Church
  • 11. Shelley Lubben Former porn star and prostitute Got out of the sex industry and became a Christian Her story is confronting, but strips away the lies www.shelleylubben.com The Pink Cross Primary aim to reach out to workers in the sex industry (evangelism and physical care) Secondary aim to reach out to porn addicts www.thepinkcross.org
  • 12. You need to TALK about it! Foster an environment where anything and everything is OK to talk about They have questions, and if you dont satisfy them, theyll go looking for the answers elsewhere... First serious sex talk around age 10-12 PREPARING them is better long-term than shielding them Clearly you cant shield them from everything: bus stops, poster ads, TV commercials, their friends Preparation promotes maturity, responsibility, and growth Be wise about timing: you dont want them to grow up too fast! You need to KNOW what they are watching, reading and playing Filters are helpful, but not a substitute for involvement in their activities Discussion
  • 13. Genesis 38:1-11 Onan treats his dead brothers wife like a prostitute Leviticus 15:1-18 Any bodily emissions make you unclean for a day (even semen, even during sex) Deuteronomy 23:9-11 Specific case of wet dream but still the same result as Leviticus
  • 14. So maybe masturbation isnt sinful, but lust certainly is: 27 You have heard that it was said, Do not commit adultery. 28 But I tell you, everyone who looks at a woman to lust for her has already committed adultery with her in his heart. 29 If your right eye causes you to sin, gouge it out and throw it away. For it is better that you lose one of the parts of your body than for your whole body to be thrown into hell. 30 And if your right hand causes you to sin, cut it off and throw it away. For it is better that you lose one of the parts of your body than for your whole body to go into hell! In my opinion: Married: Masturbation has no place in marriage Single: Masturbation trains you against healthy sex in marriage Regardless: Masturbation tends to addiction Maybe not sinful in itself for everyone, but it certainly was for me
  • 16. My Responsibility Someone Elses Responsibility
  • 17. Feelings / Emotions Attitudes / Beliefs Behaviours / Actions Irresponsibility and Immaturity Its not my fault, I had no Avoidance (Blame or Manipulate) choice... If I say No then Im a bad Its not really that bad... Selfishly ignore my problems person If they dont like me, then it must have been my fault. Overworked, Overloaded, and Burnt-out CRAVE RELIEF!! Stress, Anxiety, and Depression ESCAPE INTO SIN!! Selfishly take everyone elses problems
  • 18. Ephesians 4 Take off old self, put on new self, renewing your mind Colossians 3 Put off old self, put on new self, renewed in knowledge 2 Corinthians 10 The apostles take every thought captive to obey Christ
  • 19. TRIGGER ACT OUT Your Brain
  • 20. TRIGGER ACT OUT Your Brain
  • 21. TRIGGER ACT OUT NEW Your Brain ACTION
  • 22. TRIGGER ACT OUT NEW Your Brain ACTION
  • 23. TRIGGER ACT OUT NEW Your Brain ACTION
  • 24. TRIGGER ACT OUT NEW Your Brain ACTION