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美國科研人員進行過一項有趣的心理學實驗, 名曰「伤痕实验」。
他們向參與其中的志願者宣稱, 該實驗旨在觀察 人們對身體有缺陷的陌生人作何反應, 尤其是面部有伤痕的人。
每位志願者都被安排在沒有鏡子的小房間裡, 由好萊塢的專業化妝師在其左臉 做出一道血肉模糊、觸目驚心的傷痕。
志愿者被允许用一面小镜子照照化妆的效果后,镜子就被拿走了。
關鍵的是最後一步, 化妝師表示需要在傷痕表面再塗一層粉末, 以防止它被不小心擦掉。
实际上,化妆师用纸巾偷偷抹掉了化妆的痕跡。
對此毫不知情的志願者,被派往各醫院的候診室, 他們的任務就是觀察人們對其面部傷痕的反應。
規定的時間到了, 返回的志願者竟無一例外地敘述了相同的感受 — 人們對他們比以往粗魯無理、不友好, 而且總是盯著他們的臉看!
可是實際上,他們的臉上與往常並無二致, 什麼也沒有不同; 他們之所以得出那樣的結論, 看來是 錯誤的自我認知 影響了他們的判斷。
這真是一個發人深省的實驗。 原來,一個人內心怎樣看待自己, 在外界就能感受到怎樣的眼光。
同時,這個實驗也從一個側面驗證了一句西方格言: 「別人是以你看待自己的方式看待你。」不是嗎?
一个从容的人,感受到的多是平和的眼光;
一个自卑的人,感受到的多是歧视的眼光;
一个和善的人,感受到的多是友好的眼光;
一个叛逆的人,感受到的多是挑惕的眼光……
可以說,有什麼樣的內心世界, 就有什麼樣的外界眼光。
如此看來, 一個人若是 長期抱怨自己的處境 冷漠、不公、缺少陽光 , 那就說明,真正出問題的, 正是他自己的內心世界, 是他對自我的認知出了偏差。
這個時候,需要改變的,正是自己的內心; 而內心的世界一旦改善,身外的處境必然隨之好轉。
毕竟,在这个世界上,只有你自己,才能决定别人看你的眼光。
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