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How to Stay POSI + IVE in a TOUGH Work Environment
The Environment YOU Beware the Bullets! Determinism Theory Negative World View Changing Environment Negative Work Environment Past Experiences Other Peoples Behavior Ouch!
-   Dog eat dog . . . everyone fighting to get ahead - No one appreciates your contributions  - Too much work . . . not enough help - Deadlines are unrealistic - Longer hours . . . additional work - Budget Constraints - Competition is eating us alive - Poor management / direction - Job insecurity Negative Work Environment
Bulldozers Snipers Exploders Clams Patronizers Complainers Controllers Backstabbers Walking Wounded Negatives Gossips Brown Nosers Sluffers Whiners Other Peoples Behavior
Challenges our paradigms Alters the way we think Makes life more difficult for a while Causes Stress Is an ongoing fact of life  The only person who always likes change is a wet baby CHANGE . . .   Changing Environment
Past Experiences Ouch! Ouch! Ouch! Ouch! Ouch! Ouch! Ouch! Ouch! Ouch!
Media Frenzy A recent Statistic: Crime down  20%  in America reporting up  600% , Look at what you are looking at !!! Negative World View
GENETIC :  My Grandparents did it to me. (Inherited traits) PSYCHIC :  My Parents did it to me. (Upbringing) ENVIRONMENTAL :  My Spouse, my Boss, the Company, the Economy, etc.. is doing this to me.  (Surroundings) Determinism Theory
   Are some people just  born  positive    thinkers  . . . or is it their  CHOICE ? Lifes Little Question
Choose the Right Luggage Dodge Bullets Be Bulletproof
The Problem With Dodging Bullets Youre going to get hit!
Choice #2   Wear Bulletproof Armor
Bulletproof Armor Comes from SELF CHANGE
Putting on the Armor Change  3 Things!
How to  Change  Your  Attitude ATTITUDE ATTITUDE Changes happen personally from the  INSIDE OUT!
I am responsible . . .  . . . for who I am . . . for what I have . . . for what I do So . . . Accept Responsibility ATTITUDE
Step #2  Take Control Negative world view YOU FROM THE INSIDE . . . OUT! Ownership Values Mission Discipline ATTITUDE
How to  Change  Your  Thinking THINKING THINKING Changes come from observing  logically  in  every situation
Observe  Your  Thinking THINKING It sucks to be him. I refuse to let this hook me! This is all very interesting What can I do to defuse this? Tomorrow it will look very different. Id like to beat the
Manage  Your  Self - Talk If you think you Can, or you think you Cant YOURE RIGHT ! Henry Ford THINKING This is going to be a wonderful day! This is going to be a crappy day!
How to  Change  Your  Behavior BEHAVIOR BEHAVIOR Changes take true assessment, determination & discipline
Choose Your Behavior REACTIVE RESPONSIBLE BEHAVIOR Response My Response My Choice Stimulus Stimulus
Steps Toward Changing Behavior 1.   Unconscious Incompetence 2.   Conscience Incompetence 3.   Conscience Competence 4.   Unconscious Competence BEHAVIOR The New YOU!
Add   POSI + IVE   Behavior INFLUENCE YOUR ENVIRONMENT! Sprinkle some positive on the negatives Focus on the good of each day Stay out of the feeding frenzies Say please and thank you Practice  EMPATHY Evaluate  YOUR  behavior  Never miss an opportunity to complement Spread a SMILE around Replace the BAD HABITS! BEHAVIOR
More  POSI + IVE  Contributions 1.  Is it true? 2.  Is it harmful? 3.  Is it necessary? Keep promises Have a forgiving view of people Keep an open mind with changes Count to 1000 if necessary See criticism as opportunity to improve Cultivate your sense of humor Before you say anything to anyone, ask yourself three things
Watch your definitions -  they become thoughts Watch your thoughts -  they become words Watch your words -  they become actions Watch your actions -  they become your destiny Remember to . . .
The Choice is YOURS With a Bad attitude  you can never have a positive day With a Positive attitude  you can never have a bad day
Choose   POSI + IVE   Living

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  • 1. How to Stay POSI + IVE in a TOUGH Work Environment
  • 2. The Environment YOU Beware the Bullets! Determinism Theory Negative World View Changing Environment Negative Work Environment Past Experiences Other Peoples Behavior Ouch!
  • 3. - Dog eat dog . . . everyone fighting to get ahead - No one appreciates your contributions - Too much work . . . not enough help - Deadlines are unrealistic - Longer hours . . . additional work - Budget Constraints - Competition is eating us alive - Poor management / direction - Job insecurity Negative Work Environment
  • 4. Bulldozers Snipers Exploders Clams Patronizers Complainers Controllers Backstabbers Walking Wounded Negatives Gossips Brown Nosers Sluffers Whiners Other Peoples Behavior
  • 5. Challenges our paradigms Alters the way we think Makes life more difficult for a while Causes Stress Is an ongoing fact of life The only person who always likes change is a wet baby CHANGE . . . Changing Environment
  • 6. Past Experiences Ouch! Ouch! Ouch! Ouch! Ouch! Ouch! Ouch! Ouch! Ouch!
  • 7. Media Frenzy A recent Statistic: Crime down 20% in America reporting up 600% , Look at what you are looking at !!! Negative World View
  • 8. GENETIC : My Grandparents did it to me. (Inherited traits) PSYCHIC : My Parents did it to me. (Upbringing) ENVIRONMENTAL : My Spouse, my Boss, the Company, the Economy, etc.. is doing this to me. (Surroundings) Determinism Theory
  • 9. Are some people just born positive thinkers . . . or is it their CHOICE ? Lifes Little Question
  • 10. Choose the Right Luggage Dodge Bullets Be Bulletproof
  • 11. The Problem With Dodging Bullets Youre going to get hit!
  • 12. Choice #2 Wear Bulletproof Armor
  • 13. Bulletproof Armor Comes from SELF CHANGE
  • 14. Putting on the Armor Change 3 Things!
  • 15. How to Change Your Attitude ATTITUDE ATTITUDE Changes happen personally from the INSIDE OUT!
  • 16. I am responsible . . . . . . for who I am . . . for what I have . . . for what I do So . . . Accept Responsibility ATTITUDE
  • 17. Step #2 Take Control Negative world view YOU FROM THE INSIDE . . . OUT! Ownership Values Mission Discipline ATTITUDE
  • 18. How to Change Your Thinking THINKING THINKING Changes come from observing logically in every situation
  • 19. Observe Your Thinking THINKING It sucks to be him. I refuse to let this hook me! This is all very interesting What can I do to defuse this? Tomorrow it will look very different. Id like to beat the
  • 20. Manage Your Self - Talk If you think you Can, or you think you Cant YOURE RIGHT ! Henry Ford THINKING This is going to be a wonderful day! This is going to be a crappy day!
  • 21. How to Change Your Behavior BEHAVIOR BEHAVIOR Changes take true assessment, determination & discipline
  • 22. Choose Your Behavior REACTIVE RESPONSIBLE BEHAVIOR Response My Response My Choice Stimulus Stimulus
  • 23. Steps Toward Changing Behavior 1. Unconscious Incompetence 2. Conscience Incompetence 3. Conscience Competence 4. Unconscious Competence BEHAVIOR The New YOU!
  • 24. Add POSI + IVE Behavior INFLUENCE YOUR ENVIRONMENT! Sprinkle some positive on the negatives Focus on the good of each day Stay out of the feeding frenzies Say please and thank you Practice EMPATHY Evaluate YOUR behavior Never miss an opportunity to complement Spread a SMILE around Replace the BAD HABITS! BEHAVIOR
  • 25. More POSI + IVE Contributions 1. Is it true? 2. Is it harmful? 3. Is it necessary? Keep promises Have a forgiving view of people Keep an open mind with changes Count to 1000 if necessary See criticism as opportunity to improve Cultivate your sense of humor Before you say anything to anyone, ask yourself three things
  • 26. Watch your definitions - they become thoughts Watch your thoughts - they become words Watch your words - they become actions Watch your actions - they become your destiny Remember to . . .
  • 27. The Choice is YOURS With a Bad attitude you can never have a positive day With a Positive attitude you can never have a bad day
  • 28. Choose POSI + IVE Living

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