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Entrepreneurship &
My Mental Health:
How I Cope 7 Years In
Cory J. Miller
iThemes
@corymiller303
@corymiller303#WCDENVER
Anger, Stress, Frustration,
Jealousy, Competition, Conflict,
Loss, Insecurity, Criticism,
Failure, Fear, Breakups, Divorce,
Loss, Family, Problems,
Loneliness, Depression,
Money Problems, Burnout
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The toughest,
often loneliest job
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7 Beliefs That
Change(d) My Life
aka Things I Say To
Myself, Over and Over and Over
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Sometimes
I need help &
thats OK.
BELIEF #1
@corymiller303#WCDENVER
Disclaimer: Im not
a counselor
@corymiller303#WCDENVER
My counselors
name is Kyle
5 Years
~4 times a Year
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 Dump my garbage on someone 
I dont see at Thanksgiving
 Talk/work through tough situations privately
 Get outside expert opinions & perspectives on
relationships
 Regular mental health checkup
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Im not alone.
BELIEF #2
@corymiller303#WCDENVER
I'm not the only
one dealing with these
issues or feelings
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Same problems,
different names
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Find a Like-Minded
Peer Group on Similar
Journey to Walk With
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By the way,
YOURE NOT ALONE
EITHER!
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My health &
happiness comes first.
BELIEF #3
@corymiller303#WCDENVER
If Im miserable,
everybody else will be too
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What 8 months of
misery taught me
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If youre not happy,
change it.
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Ultimately, Im only
responsible for
my own happiness.
BELIEF #4
@corymiller303#WCDENVER
YOUR happiness is
not MY job
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Clear boundaries =
More Happiness
I decide what I will &
wont allow in my life & biz
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The Happiness Advantage
by Shawn Achor
& Boundaries
by Henry Cloud
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The only thing I can
truly control is myself.
BELIEF #5
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 my actions,
my reactions,
my thoughts,
my feelings
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Positive & productive
vs.
negative & pessimistic
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Anger and frustration
come from unmet
expectations
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My worth isnt
measured in
dollar signs.
BELIEF #6
@corymiller303#WCDENVER
Likes, Follows,
Awards, Cars,
Company Size,
House, etc.
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I refuse to play
puerile games
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I value my life by the
people I love & who
love me & the lives
I impact for good
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I cant WONT do this
by myself, ever again.
BELIEF #7
@corymiller303#WCDENVER
My pride put me in
6 months of solitary
confinement
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I need people.
You need people.
We need people.
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The people who make
the difference for me
@corymiller303#WCDENVER
1. Its OK to ask for help
2. Youre not alone
3. Your health & happiness comes first
4. Control only the things you can control
5. Others happiness is not your responsibility
6. Your worth shouldnt be measured in things
7. Dont try to do this alone
Thank you!
cory@iThemes.com
@corymiller303
FINDING A COUNSELOR
Ask your physician for a referral
Ask trusted friends/family
Contact Health Insurance
1-800-NEW-LIFE

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