Best-selling psychiatrist, Mark Epstein looks at one of the most powerful drivers of human behavior through the lens of Buddhist teachings on suffering.
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The Enchanted Loom reviews Mark Epstein's book, Open to Desire
3. Thread 1:
Desire can be transformed by a process that is
at once mental, emotional, psychological and
spiritual.
This is a
path in
which
longing
becomes
a teacher
in its own
right. (pg.11)
4. Thread 2:
Look into the eyes of desire and there is
boundless light.
(pg. 23)
5. Thread 3:
Buddhas First Noble Truth is that all of life is
tinged with a sense of pervasive unsatisfactori-
ness because
of how fleeting
and insub-
stantial
everything is.
(pg. 40)
7. Thread 5:
The self falls
away
effortlessly
under the
spell of love.
(pg. 56)
8. Thread 6:
What are we seeking from sex? We seem to be
seeking a level of relief that is not available,
and we get
angry when
it does not
come.
(pg. 71)
9. Thread 7:
There are three characters in any story of eros:
lover, beloved and that which comes between
them.
(pg. 72)
10. Thread 8:
We often find, to our own chagrin, that when
one level of desire is fulfilled, another stands
ready to
take its
place.
(pg. 86)
11. Thread 9:
Desire moves us
towards climax,
but its resolution
is anticlimatic.
It can be main-
tained only
if it remains
unfulfilled.
(pg. 113)
12. Thread 10:
It is a joy to be hidden, but it is a disaster
not to be found. ~ D. W. Winnicott
(pg. 142)
13. Thread 11:
In an uncanny parallel between the world of
psychotherapy and the world of Indian spirit-
uality, the meta-
morphosis of
desire that both
disciplines en-
vision is equated
with an opening
to the feminine.
(pg. 131)