Wen shares his career journey from a software engineer to becoming a coach. As an introvert, Wen struggled with believing he couldn't be a great leader. However, after challenging this limiting belief and gaining management experience, Wen realized introverts can make strong leaders. While Wen achieved a six-figure salary, he felt unfulfilled and longed for more meaning. After a gap year of travel, family, and career exploration, Wen discovered his passion for coaching. Coaching helped Wen transform his mindset and walk away from his corporate career to pursue his purpose of helping others through coaching.
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The journey to a six figure income and walking away from it
1. The Journey to A Six
-Figure Income and
Walking Away From It
By Wen Hsu
2. About Me
ICF Certified Coach @ Wen
Coaching
15+ years in tech with 7 years of
management experience leading
teams and delivering impacts
Mission: Bring humanity back to
tech
LinkedIn
3. What People Dont Know About Me
Ive been fired. Ive felt lonely. Ive
lost loved ones
Ive had problem saying NOs to
others
I often depend on constant
performance and achievement for
self-respect and self-validation
4. The learning in my journey to six figures
Climbing the corporate ladder
Career exploration
The gut to walk away - being a coach
Q&A
Outline
5. Typical Career Paths
Degree Senior SE
Lead SE Engineering
Manager
Software
Engineer
VP,
Engineering
Staff
Engineer
Management
Staff Software
Engineer II
Principal SE
Individual Contributor
7. Wens Career Choice
Degree Senior SE
Software
Engineer
鐚
My thought:
introverts cant be a
great leaders
8. Different from Shy
Shyness is about fear of social judgment
Definition鐚how you respond to stimulation
Extroverts really crave large amounts of stimulation
Introverts feel at their most alive and their most
switched-on and their most capable when they're in
quieter, more low-key environments
The American dream is to be extroverted
Introvert
9. Leader
A leader is driven by deep rooted values that they are
urge to complete their goals. They understand their
strengths and weaknesses and have the confidence to
maximize and leverage all they have to give and learn.
11. Deliver good results
Build strong, trusting, and, meaningful
connections
The best leaders for proactive employees
Well-processed thoughts
Strong-willed and humble
Introverted Leaders Strengths
12. Wens Career Path
Degree Software
Engineer
Lead SE
Senior SE
Embrace my
introversion &
challenge my limiting
belief
Engineering
Manager
13. Wens Career Path
Degree Software
Engineer
Lead SE
Senior SE
Intentionally
transferred from
client-facing to a
R&D department to
get out of my
comfort zone
Engineering
Manager
15. Coaching Definition
International Coaching Federation (ICF) defines
coaching as partnering with clients in a
thought-provoking and creative process that
inspires them to maximize their personal and
professional potential.
16. Coaching in Practice
I hired a coach to help me to ...
Work through my deepest fears
See my blind spots
Identify and challenge my limiting beliefs
Discover my strongest desires
Have the courage to change
17. When to Quit
Learned to say NOs (to others) to
enable a bigger YES (for myself)!
So I Quit!
To gift myself the time and space
to wonder
20. Gap Year - Career Exploration
How to know if its right?
1. Be open and be
curious!
2. Test-dry the career
3. Information Interviews
21. Learnings in My Gap Year
Old beliefs / doubts:
I am on my own
My team would suffer without me
Who am I without a job (being productive)?
Im giving up (a lot of) what Ive established
I am too old to ____
22. Learnings in My Gap Year
New beliefs:
I am loved
I belong when I show my authentic self
I create my own identity and life
Im never too old to try new things
Confidence is the result of taking actions and
facing unknown (not the other way around)
23. The Gut to Walk Away
A layoff
Gifts - things are happening TO me
My deep rooted values
People thrive only when they have psychological safety
Transform myself and others to live our purpose in life
Impact first, income will follow
FOR
24. Wens Career Path
Degree Software
Engineer
Lead
SE
Senior
SE
EM
Coach | Leader |
Advisor | Investor |
Chef | Entrepreneur
Coaching
transformed
chaos to
possibilities
25. 1. When do I need coaching?
Need - when you are stuck. Want - when you want to get to a better place. If you are unsure or if you
are looking for a change, I offer a complimentary coaching session. Book here.
2. How do I stop the constant need to perform to prove myself?
Im still practicing everyday the act of self-compassion. I need to unlearn the old paradigm from my
parents and society and then build up the new muscle of unconditional self-love. It takes time and its
rewarding.
3. Whats the differences between a mentor and a coach?
Mentor - been there done that. Give advice/ideas on what worked for them (which might or might not
work for you)
Coach - belief clients have the answer because you are an expert of you. Coaching is a partnership.
Coach brings out the answers from you by asking thought-provoking questions so the solutions are
tailored to you.
Q&A
26. Ive been a leader, a
coach, and an
trusted advisor to
transform peoples
life - even when they
cant see their own
power.
Book a complimentary coaching session with me HERE.