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The Journey to A Six
-Figure Income and
Walking Away From It
By Wen Hsu
About Me
 ICF Certified Coach @ Wen
Coaching
 15+ years in tech with 7 years of
management experience leading
teams and delivering impacts
 Mission: Bring humanity back to
tech
 LinkedIn
What People Dont Know About Me
 Ive been fired. Ive felt lonely. Ive
lost loved ones
 Ive had problem saying NOs to
others
 I often depend on constant
performance and achievement for
self-respect and self-validation
 The learning in my journey to six figures
 Climbing the corporate ladder
 Career exploration
 The gut to walk away - being a coach
 Q&A
Outline
Typical Career Paths
Degree Senior SE
Lead SE Engineering
Manager
Software
Engineer
VP,
Engineering
Staff
Engineer
Management
Staff Software
Engineer II
Principal SE
Individual Contributor
The journey to a six figure income and walking away from it
Wens Career Choice
Degree Senior SE
Software
Engineer
鐚
My thought:
introverts cant be a
great leaders
 Different from Shy
 Shyness is about fear of social judgment
 Definition鐚how you respond to stimulation
 Extroverts really crave large amounts of stimulation
 Introverts feel at their most alive and their most
switched-on and their most capable when they're in
quieter, more low-key environments
 The American dream is to be extroverted
Introvert
Leader
A leader is driven by deep rooted values that they are
urge to complete their goals. They understand their
strengths and weaknesses and have the confidence to
maximize and leverage all they have to give and learn.
Introverted Leaders
 Deliver good results
 Build strong, trusting, and, meaningful
connections
 The best leaders for proactive employees
 Well-processed thoughts
 Strong-willed and humble
Introverted Leaders Strengths
Wens Career Path
Degree Software
Engineer
Lead SE
Senior SE
Embrace my
introversion &
challenge my limiting
belief
Engineering
Manager
Wens Career Path
Degree Software
Engineer
Lead SE
Senior SE
Intentionally
transferred from
client-facing to a
R&D department to
get out of my
comfort zone
Engineering
Manager
Whats Next
Degree Software
Engineer
Lead
SE
Senior
SE
VP,
Engineering
EM
60k 100k 160k 200k+ 500k?
Cant see where I
want to go. Luckily,
I encountered
coaching
Coaching Definition
International Coaching Federation (ICF) defines
coaching as partnering with clients in a
thought-provoking and creative process that
inspires them to maximize their personal and
professional potential.
Coaching in Practice
I hired a coach to help me to ...
 Work through my deepest fears
 See my blind spots
 Identify and challenge my limiting beliefs
 Discover my strongest desires
 Have the courage to change
When to Quit
Learned to say NOs (to others) to
enable a bigger YES (for myself)!
So I Quit!
To gift myself the time and space
to wonder
Gap Year - Travel
Gap Year - Family
Gap Year - Career Exploration
How to know if its right?
1. Be open and be
curious!
2. Test-dry the career
3. Information Interviews
Learnings in My Gap Year
Old beliefs / doubts:
 I am on my own
 My team would suffer without me
 Who am I without a job (being productive)?
 Im giving up (a lot of) what Ive established
 I am too old to ____
Learnings in My Gap Year
New beliefs:
 I am loved
 I belong when I show my authentic self
 I create my own identity and life
 Im never too old to try new things
 Confidence is the result of taking actions and
facing unknown (not the other way around)
The Gut to Walk Away
 A layoff
 Gifts - things are happening TO me
 My deep rooted values
 People thrive only when they have psychological safety
 Transform myself and others to live our purpose in life
 Impact first, income will follow
FOR
Wens Career Path
Degree Software
Engineer
Lead
SE
Senior
SE
EM
Coach | Leader |
Advisor | Investor |
Chef | Entrepreneur
Coaching
transformed
chaos to
possibilities
1. When do I need coaching?
Need - when you are stuck. Want - when you want to get to a better place. If you are unsure or if you
are looking for a change, I offer a complimentary coaching session. Book here.
2. How do I stop the constant need to perform to prove myself?
Im still practicing everyday the act of self-compassion. I need to unlearn the old paradigm from my
parents and society and then build up the new muscle of unconditional self-love. It takes time and its
rewarding.
3. Whats the differences between a mentor and a coach?
Mentor - been there done that. Give advice/ideas on what worked for them (which might or might not
work for you)
Coach - belief clients have the answer because you are an expert of you. Coaching is a partnership.
Coach brings out the answers from you by asking thought-provoking questions so the solutions are
tailored to you.
Q&A
Ive been a leader, a
coach, and an
trusted advisor to
transform peoples
life - even when they
cant see their own
power.
Book a complimentary coaching session with me HERE.

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The journey to a six figure income and walking away from it

  • 1. The Journey to A Six -Figure Income and Walking Away From It By Wen Hsu
  • 2. About Me ICF Certified Coach @ Wen Coaching 15+ years in tech with 7 years of management experience leading teams and delivering impacts Mission: Bring humanity back to tech LinkedIn
  • 3. What People Dont Know About Me Ive been fired. Ive felt lonely. Ive lost loved ones Ive had problem saying NOs to others I often depend on constant performance and achievement for self-respect and self-validation
  • 4. The learning in my journey to six figures Climbing the corporate ladder Career exploration The gut to walk away - being a coach Q&A Outline
  • 5. Typical Career Paths Degree Senior SE Lead SE Engineering Manager Software Engineer VP, Engineering Staff Engineer Management Staff Software Engineer II Principal SE Individual Contributor
  • 7. Wens Career Choice Degree Senior SE Software Engineer 鐚 My thought: introverts cant be a great leaders
  • 8. Different from Shy Shyness is about fear of social judgment Definition鐚how you respond to stimulation Extroverts really crave large amounts of stimulation Introverts feel at their most alive and their most switched-on and their most capable when they're in quieter, more low-key environments The American dream is to be extroverted Introvert
  • 9. Leader A leader is driven by deep rooted values that they are urge to complete their goals. They understand their strengths and weaknesses and have the confidence to maximize and leverage all they have to give and learn.
  • 11. Deliver good results Build strong, trusting, and, meaningful connections The best leaders for proactive employees Well-processed thoughts Strong-willed and humble Introverted Leaders Strengths
  • 12. Wens Career Path Degree Software Engineer Lead SE Senior SE Embrace my introversion & challenge my limiting belief Engineering Manager
  • 13. Wens Career Path Degree Software Engineer Lead SE Senior SE Intentionally transferred from client-facing to a R&D department to get out of my comfort zone Engineering Manager
  • 14. Whats Next Degree Software Engineer Lead SE Senior SE VP, Engineering EM 60k 100k 160k 200k+ 500k? Cant see where I want to go. Luckily, I encountered coaching
  • 15. Coaching Definition International Coaching Federation (ICF) defines coaching as partnering with clients in a thought-provoking and creative process that inspires them to maximize their personal and professional potential.
  • 16. Coaching in Practice I hired a coach to help me to ... Work through my deepest fears See my blind spots Identify and challenge my limiting beliefs Discover my strongest desires Have the courage to change
  • 17. When to Quit Learned to say NOs (to others) to enable a bigger YES (for myself)! So I Quit! To gift myself the time and space to wonder
  • 18. Gap Year - Travel
  • 19. Gap Year - Family
  • 20. Gap Year - Career Exploration How to know if its right? 1. Be open and be curious! 2. Test-dry the career 3. Information Interviews
  • 21. Learnings in My Gap Year Old beliefs / doubts: I am on my own My team would suffer without me Who am I without a job (being productive)? Im giving up (a lot of) what Ive established I am too old to ____
  • 22. Learnings in My Gap Year New beliefs: I am loved I belong when I show my authentic self I create my own identity and life Im never too old to try new things Confidence is the result of taking actions and facing unknown (not the other way around)
  • 23. The Gut to Walk Away A layoff Gifts - things are happening TO me My deep rooted values People thrive only when they have psychological safety Transform myself and others to live our purpose in life Impact first, income will follow FOR
  • 24. Wens Career Path Degree Software Engineer Lead SE Senior SE EM Coach | Leader | Advisor | Investor | Chef | Entrepreneur Coaching transformed chaos to possibilities
  • 25. 1. When do I need coaching? Need - when you are stuck. Want - when you want to get to a better place. If you are unsure or if you are looking for a change, I offer a complimentary coaching session. Book here. 2. How do I stop the constant need to perform to prove myself? Im still practicing everyday the act of self-compassion. I need to unlearn the old paradigm from my parents and society and then build up the new muscle of unconditional self-love. It takes time and its rewarding. 3. Whats the differences between a mentor and a coach? Mentor - been there done that. Give advice/ideas on what worked for them (which might or might not work for you) Coach - belief clients have the answer because you are an expert of you. Coaching is a partnership. Coach brings out the answers from you by asking thought-provoking questions so the solutions are tailored to you. Q&A
  • 26. Ive been a leader, a coach, and an trusted advisor to transform peoples life - even when they cant see their own power. Book a complimentary coaching session with me HERE.