Jerry was a restaurant manager known for his constantly positive attitude. He believed people have a choice every day to be in a good or bad mood. When Jerry was later robbed at gunpoint and shot, he maintained his positive outlook during a difficult recovery. Jerry explained to the author that even in crises, one can choose to live or die, helping doctors save his life through humor and choosing to fight. The author learned from Jerry's example that having control over one's attitude is empowering and makes facing challenges easier.
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Many of the waiters at his
restaurant quit their jobs
when he changed jobs,
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so they could follow him
around from restaurant to
restaurant
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If an employee was having a
bad day,
Jerry was always there, telling
the employee how to look on
the positive side of the
situation.
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Seeing this style really made
me curious, so one day I went
up to Jerry and asked him 鐚
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"I don't get it! No one can be
a positive person all of the
time. How do you do it?"
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Jerry replied, "Each morning
I wake up and say to
myself, I have two choices
today. I can choose to be in
a good mood or I can
choose to be in a bad
mood.
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I always choose to be in a
good mood.
Each time something bad
happens, I can choose to
be victim or I can choose
to learn from it. I always
choose to learn from it.
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Every time someone comes
to me complaining, I can
choose to accept their
complaining or I can point
out the positive side of life.
I always choose the positive
side of life."
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"Life is all about choices.
When you cut away all the
junk every situation is a
choice.
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You choose how you react to
situations.
You choose how people will
affect your mood.
You choose to be in a good
mood or bad mood.
It's your choice how you live your
life."
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I heard that Jerry accidentally
did something you are never
supposed to do in the
restaurant business.
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his hand, shaking from
nervousness, slipped off
the combination.
The robbers panicked and
shot him.
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he replied, "If I were any
better, I'd be twins. Want
to see my scars?"
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I declined to see his
wounds, but did ask him
what had gone through
his mind as the robbery
took place.
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"The first thing that went
through my mind was that
I should have locked the
back door," Jerry replied.
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"Then, after they shot me, as
I lay on the floor, I
remembered that I had two
choices: I could choose to
live or could choose to die. I
chose to live."
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Jerry continued, "The
paramedics were great.
They kept telling me I was
going to be fine.
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But when they wheeled me
into the Emergency Room
and I saw the expression
on the faces of the doctors
and nurses, I got really
scared.
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"Well, there was a big nurse
shouting questions at me,"
said Jerry. "She asked if I
was allergic to anything."
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'I am choosing to live.
Please operate on me as
if I am alive, not dead'.
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"Jerry lived thanks to the
skill of his doctors, but
also because of his
amazing attitude.