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WHAT ADVICE SHOULDWE GIVE A MEMBERWHO HAS LEGALPROBLEMS?Melvin L. OteyAugust 15, 2011
Christians donthave legal problems,do they?domestic abuse? drugs? theft? murder?bankruptcy? DUI? tax problems?
Christians shouldnthave legal problems,should they?auto accidents? L&T? business disputes?divorce and custody? sexual harassment?
Christians with legalproblems need sagecounsel, but first alittle counsel forpotential advisors:
Remember two principles from1 John 2:1
PRINCIPLE #1Teach Christians to avoid breaking the law: An ounce of prevention is worth a pound of cure
Legal problems arisefrom lack of respectfor the law, unsavory influences, characterflaws, and misguided notions of success
Each of these hazards are addressed by Christian doctrine and influence
PRINCIPLE #2Teach Christians they can recover if they do break the law: Its not whether you get knocked down. Its whether you get back up
I.GENERAL ADVICEWHEN LEGALTROUBLE ARISES
A loose tonguecan get you intoa tight place
The person who represents himself hasa fool for a client
Never write or sign anything you dontfully understand (evenfor your lawyer)
II.LEGAL ADVICEWHEN CRIMINALTROUBLE ARISES
Get a (good)lawyer, and be honestwith him/her
Make sure yourlawyer explains EVERYTHING to you.Its your life!
You can remainsilent, butyou cannot lie
Pretrial diversion programs can protect your criminal record
Acceptance of responsibility is often rewarded(cf. 1 Jn. 1:9)
Palpable repentance (remorse + restitution +  rehabilitation) often merits a lesser penalty
While honesty and contrition are generally rewarded, dishonesty and pride are typically punished (cf. Rom. 13:3)
III.LEGAL ADVICEWHEN CIVILTROUBLE ARISES
Civil suits are generally about money, but money isnt everything; consider spiritual implications(1 Tim. 6:10; MK. 8:36)
Be very carefuland holistic as you think about whatit will mean towin the case
Right living before God is more important than earthly riches(Prov. 16:8, 28:6)
A good reputation for integrity is far more important as well(Prov. 22:1, 19:1)
Count carefully; the financial, temporal, and emotional costs in civil litigation can be very high
Pursue ADR options (e.g.,  negotiation, mediation, arbitration)(Mt. 5:25)
WHAT ADVICE SHOULDWE GIVE A MEMBERWHO HAS LEGALPROBLEMS?Melvin L. OteyAugust 15, 2011

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Editor's Notes

  • #6: A. Emphasize biblical teaching about obeying the laws of the land (Rom. 13:1-4)-Breaking secular laws that do not conflict with divine Law shows a lack of respect for God, but Christians dont always think in these terms.Highlight the corrosive affect of bad company -Thou shalt not follow a multitude to [do] evil (Ex. 23:2a)-Do not be deceived: Bad company corrupts good morals (1 Cor. 15:33 NASB)C. Address the dark dispositions of heart that lead to legal trouble (e.g., greed, anger, selfishness, impatience)D. Present clear, consistent message about what it means to win and succeed
  • #12: People hurt themselves by discussing their legal troubles far more often than they help themselves. Remember, anything you say can and will be used against you. Do not try to talk your way out of it.
  • #13: Legal disputes are contested in settings and under rules that are very unfamiliar to most people. There are firm rules and hard deadlines. By the time you learn that youve missed something, it will likely be too late. Do seek legal advice.
  • #16: Without a good recommendation, theres no guarantee that a retained lawyer is better than one appointed by the court.
  • #18: The Judge in heaven doesnt like itNeither do the judges on earth
  • #20: Readily admitting guilt early is usually better than grudgingly doing so later or falsely denying unto the bitter end.
  • #21: Dont just say youre sorry. Show it! Show the judge that the best thing for you and society is to let you keep doing what youre doing.
  • #22: Dont just say youre sorry. Show it! Show the judge that the best thing for you and society is to let you keep doing what youre doing.
  • #24: -For the love of money is the root of all evil: which while some coveted after, they have erred from the faith, and pierced themselves through with many sorrows. (1 Tim. 6:10)-For what shall it profit a man, if he shall gain the whole world, and lose his own soul? (Mk. 8:36)-Be careful about looking at civil suits like others look at lottery tickets.-Sometimes, it is better to take the financial loss (e.g., Robotham).
  • #25: Balance between being compensated and plundering someone else.Win at all cost
  • #26: -Better is a little with righteousness than great revenues without right. (Prov. 16:8)-Better is the poor that walketh in his uprightness, than he that is perverse in his ways, though he be rich. (Prov. 28:6)-A little that a righteous man hath is better than the riches of many wicked. (Ps. 37:16)
  • #27: -A good name is rather to be chosen than great riches, and loving favour rather than silver and gold. (Prov. 22:1)-Better is the poor that walketh in his integrity, than he that is perverse in his lips, and is a fool. (Prov. 19:1)
  • #29: Agree with thine adversary quickly, whiles thou art in the way with him; lest at any time the adversary deliver thee to the judge, and the judge deliver thee to the officer, and thou be cast into prison (Mt. 5:25)