What Match.Com Taught A Grumpy Old Guy About Love, Life and Social Media
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This document compares dating in the 1980s to dating in 2010, noting that dating used to follow a "push model" where men would annoyingly pursue women, while now it follows an "opt in" model where women invite pursuing that is more targeted and efficient. It also contains advice about the life cycle of lies, suggesting that lying is losing, one's reputation needs protecting, only pursue opportunities where the truth will win out, words need confirming behavior, and being scarce increases perceived value.
What Match.Com Taught A Grumpy Old Guy About Love, Life and Social Media
- 8. 1980¡¯s Dating 2010 Dating Push Model Opt In Annoying Inviting Shot Gun Targeted Inefficient Efficient
- 10. Match.com Rosetta Stone Real World Match.com Curvy Age 50 45-47
- 11. 1980 Life Cycle of a Lie 2010 Life Cycle of a Lie
- 12. I Look Good In Jeans or A Tux Or A Speedo Or A Toga My Friends Say I¡¯m A Funny Guy
- 14. Push World The Opt-In World
- 15. #1 Lying is a losing proposition The odds of getting caught have increased dramatically
- 16. #2 Protect your reputation A lifetime to build and just a moment to destroy
- 17. #3 Qualification: The truth eliminates garbage Don¡¯t waste time on that which can¡¯t be won at the cost of that which is winnable
- 18. #4 Words are empty without consistent confirming behavior It is what you do and not what you say that defines you
- 19. #5 Scarcity Principle: Be the pretty girl at the dance Being invited increases your perceived value