Didn't plan it this way of course, but I've been a single parent of four beautiful interracial girls for the past 11 years; decided I wouldn't marry again until I met my soul mate; grew up in Colorado, but my favorite years were spent in California, where the livin' was easy; if I had the means, I'd travel the world studying different cultures and lifestyles; I don't have the means, so I do it on a much smaller scale..lol I am always told I look 'much' younger than my current age, and I'm happy to hear that as the years go by, because I don't think I'm ready for that time period 'fondly' known as 'middle age'...my six year old both keeps me young and reminds me I'm not as young anymore...lo