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Achieving Self-control with Autism
Self-discipline is a skill that most autistic children have trouble acquiring. This includes not only
inappropriate outbursts, but also habits that can be potentially dangerous, such as being aggressive
towards others or causing harm to themselves, such as banging their heads off walls. To prevent these
and other behaviors, one technique parents and educators can use to control autistic tendencies is self-
management. Giving the child power over him- or herself is often the key to keeping control over violent
situations and may be a positive step towards learning other behaviors as well.
Self-management works because the child is no longer fully controlled by others. By teaching self-
management during specific times of day, such as while the child is at school or therapy, the child will be
more likely to continue to practicing self-control during all times of the day. The key is to implement a
program in which he or she monitors his or her own behavior and activities. Begin with short amounts of
time, and continue to monitor the child from a more passive standpoint. Every ten to fifteen minutes
remind the child that he or she is in control and needs to monitor and be aware of good and bad
behavior.
This monitoring is a form of self-evaluation. When a child is in control, he or she may think more closely
about behavior in the past and present. Set clear goals with the child-for example, an afternoon with no
aggression towards others or a day at school with no self-injury. Every fifteen minutes ask the child how
he or she is doing. Is the goal being met? If the answer is no, perhaps the child is not ready for self-
management, or perhaps the goals are too unattainable. You want to make sure that the goals are easy
to reach at first, and then move the child towards more difficult goals in the future. When a child is
successful at self-monitoring, he or she will have a more positive attitude towards the experience.
Of course, an important part of self-management is a rewards system. Have the child come up with his
or her own reward, depending on interest. Reinforcement will make these good behavior goals more
clearly marked in the child's mind, and by choosing and rewarding him- or herself, the child will feel
completely in control of the self-management system. Choose simple rewards to start, such as smiley
faces for every goal met and sad faces for every goal not met, and work up to a larger goal, such as a
special activity or new toy when a certain amount of smiley faces has been attained.
These types of programs do not develop overnight, so it is important that you and the child have enough
time to devote to a self-management experience. By reinforcing good behavior with rewards, as
determined by the child instead of by an adult, he or she will be more likely to carry this on even when

not participating in the program. If your autistic child is mature enough, this could be a good treatment
program to try.

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