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7 survival habits in life

Anddy Steven
Anddy Steven

This document outlines seven survival habits for life: 1) Be Proactive by taking initiative and responsibility for your life, 2) Begin with the End in Mind by defining goals and desired outcomes, 3) Put First Things First through effective prioritization and planning, 4) Think Win-Win by having an attitude where everyone can benefit, 5) Seek First to Understand by listening with empathy, 6) Synergize by working together to achieve more through valuing differences, and 7) Sharpen the Saw through achieving balance in physical, mental, emotional and spiritual well-being. Examples are provided for how to apply each habit as a student and teacher.

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IN LIFE 7 SURVIVAL HABITS
WHY DO WE NEED TO SURVIVE? Im not doing too well in school right now. If I dont get my grades up, Ill never get into college. Someone else is smarter/prettier/ more popular.
WHAT ARE HABITS? Sow a thought & you reap an act Sow an act & you reap a habit Sow a habit & your reap a character Sow a character & you reap a destiny
HABITS Are things that you do REPEATEDLY Are things which we are hardly aware of Are things which react with autopilot mode But, WE are STRONGER than our HABITS
3 IMPORTANT ELEMENTS Others Your self Your personal values Penyebab 90% Orang GAGAL dalam KEHIDUPAN adalah kegagalan dalam membina HUBUNGAN BAIK dengan orang Les Giblin SUKA atau TIDAK, tetap ada ORANG LAIN DISINI Les Giblin
THE 7 HABITS 1. Be Proactive 2. Begin with the END in mind 3. Put First Things First 4. Think Win Win 5. Seek First to Understand, then to be Understood 6. Synergize 7. Sharpen the saw
1. BE PROACTIVE Take initiative. Manage change. Take responsibility for your life.
PROACTIVE How about YOU?
PROACTIVE Bahasa Reaktif Bahasa Proaktif Nggak ada yang dapat gue Lakukan Memang Begitulah gue Dia membuat gue Marah Mereka nggak ngasih Izin Gue Terpaksa melakukan itu Ada Alternatif lain nggak Ya? Gue bisa berubah Gue bisa ngendaliin Perasaan gue Gue akan negosiasi lagi Gue akan milih tindakan yang tepat
PROACTIVE As a student & Teacher 1. 2 times Student Achievement Award 2. Initiate new student activity programs 3. Take the chance as leader 4. Initiate 4 programs in a year 5. Willingness to do menial work 6. Teaching students in/outside the class
2. BEGIN WITH THE END IN MIND Define Mission & Goals in life. Set measurable goals. Align goals to priorities. Focus on desired outcomes.
BEGIN WITH THE END IN MIND How about YOU?
BEGIN WITH THE END IN MIND As a student & Teacher Write goals for each subject Set measurable Grade for courses Write my yearly work objectives Write my objectives for my students Evaluate my goals & its visibility
3. PUT FIRST THINGS FIRST Prioritize. Focus on important activities. Apply effective planning and prioritization skills. Use planning tools effectively.
FIRST THING FIRST HOW ABOUT YOU?
PRIORITIZE OR PERISH Step 1: Identify your BIG ROCKS Step 2: Block out Time for your BIG ROCKS Step 3: Schedule Everything Else
PUT FIRST THING FIRST As a student & teacher Make monthly plan/agenda Prioritize assignment & make time table Write my daily plan every morning The first 10 minutes in life everyday will affect the entire day
4. THINK WIN-WIN Dont directly JUDGE Have an everyone-can- win attitude
THINK WIN-WIN WHAT DO YOU THINK?
THINK WIN-WIN When leading others, think of their needs RULE: You pass the subject, I pay the Tuition Help friends with expecting nothing in return When teaching students: Respect need to be gained
5. SEEK FIRST TO UNDERSTAND, THEN TO BE UNDERSTOOD Listen with your eyes, heart, & ears beyond the surface Stand in their shoes Apply effective interpersonal communication.
UNDERSTAND - UNDERSTOOD How will we do it?
UNDERSTAND & THEN TO BE UNDERSTOOD Really listen to your friends ideas Giving critics using SANDWICH Communicate viewpoints effectively YOU attitude/positive methods
6. SYNERGIZE Work together to achieve more. Value differences. Build on divergent strengths
SYNERGIZE How can you apply it?
SYNERGIZE When you work together (i.e. Doing assignments) Participate Actively and support others Respect others (believe/values) Listen evaluate ideas combine None of us is as good as US
7. SHARPEN THE SAW Achieve life balance. Take Time for Time out. Caring for your Body You are what you EAT. Trust in GOD.
SHARPEN THE SAW What is your method?
SHARPEN THE SAW Physical Mental Emotional Spiritual
THE 8TH HABIT Find your Voice & Inspire Others to find Theirs

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7 survival habits in life

  • 2. WHY DO WE NEED TO SURVIVE? Im not doing too well in school right now. If I dont get my grades up, Ill never get into college. Someone else is smarter/prettier/ more popular.
  • 3. WHAT ARE HABITS? Sow a thought & you reap an act Sow an act & you reap a habit Sow a habit & your reap a character Sow a character & you reap a destiny
  • 4. HABITS Are things that you do REPEATEDLY Are things which we are hardly aware of Are things which react with autopilot mode But, WE are STRONGER than our HABITS
  • 5. 3 IMPORTANT ELEMENTS Others Your self Your personal values Penyebab 90% Orang GAGAL dalam KEHIDUPAN adalah kegagalan dalam membina HUBUNGAN BAIK dengan orang Les Giblin SUKA atau TIDAK, tetap ada ORANG LAIN DISINI Les Giblin
  • 6. THE 7 HABITS 1. Be Proactive 2. Begin with the END in mind 3. Put First Things First 4. Think Win Win 5. Seek First to Understand, then to be Understood 6. Synergize 7. Sharpen the saw
  • 7. 1. BE PROACTIVE Take initiative. Manage change. Take responsibility for your life.
  • 9. PROACTIVE Bahasa Reaktif Bahasa Proaktif Nggak ada yang dapat gue Lakukan Memang Begitulah gue Dia membuat gue Marah Mereka nggak ngasih Izin Gue Terpaksa melakukan itu Ada Alternatif lain nggak Ya? Gue bisa berubah Gue bisa ngendaliin Perasaan gue Gue akan negosiasi lagi Gue akan milih tindakan yang tepat
  • 10. PROACTIVE As a student & Teacher 1. 2 times Student Achievement Award 2. Initiate new student activity programs 3. Take the chance as leader 4. Initiate 4 programs in a year 5. Willingness to do menial work 6. Teaching students in/outside the class
  • 11. 2. BEGIN WITH THE END IN MIND Define Mission & Goals in life. Set measurable goals. Align goals to priorities. Focus on desired outcomes.
  • 12. BEGIN WITH THE END IN MIND How about YOU?
  • 13. BEGIN WITH THE END IN MIND As a student & Teacher Write goals for each subject Set measurable Grade for courses Write my yearly work objectives Write my objectives for my students Evaluate my goals & its visibility
  • 14. 3. PUT FIRST THINGS FIRST Prioritize. Focus on important activities. Apply effective planning and prioritization skills. Use planning tools effectively.
  • 15. FIRST THING FIRST HOW ABOUT YOU?
  • 16. PRIORITIZE OR PERISH Step 1: Identify your BIG ROCKS Step 2: Block out Time for your BIG ROCKS Step 3: Schedule Everything Else
  • 17. PUT FIRST THING FIRST As a student & teacher Make monthly plan/agenda Prioritize assignment & make time table Write my daily plan every morning The first 10 minutes in life everyday will affect the entire day
  • 18. 4. THINK WIN-WIN Dont directly JUDGE Have an everyone-can- win attitude
  • 19. THINK WIN-WIN WHAT DO YOU THINK?
  • 20. THINK WIN-WIN When leading others, think of their needs RULE: You pass the subject, I pay the Tuition Help friends with expecting nothing in return When teaching students: Respect need to be gained
  • 21. 5. SEEK FIRST TO UNDERSTAND, THEN TO BE UNDERSTOOD Listen with your eyes, heart, & ears beyond the surface Stand in their shoes Apply effective interpersonal communication.
  • 23. UNDERSTAND & THEN TO BE UNDERSTOOD Really listen to your friends ideas Giving critics using SANDWICH Communicate viewpoints effectively YOU attitude/positive methods
  • 24. 6. SYNERGIZE Work together to achieve more. Value differences. Build on divergent strengths
  • 26. SYNERGIZE When you work together (i.e. Doing assignments) Participate Actively and support others Respect others (believe/values) Listen evaluate ideas combine None of us is as good as US
  • 27. 7. SHARPEN THE SAW Achieve life balance. Take Time for Time out. Caring for your Body You are what you EAT. Trust in GOD.
  • 28. SHARPEN THE SAW What is your method?
  • 30. THE 8TH HABIT Find your Voice & Inspire Others to find Theirs