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Be SMARTer Than
Your Resistance
 Success in Goal-
     Setting
What you will learn today
SMART goal-setting
Micromovements
How we get in our own way
SMART ways to manage your
resistance
SMART Goal Setting

    Specific

    Measurable

    Action-oriented

    Realistic

    Time-bound

    think in terms of
    micromovements
Barriers to Success--
How do we get in our own way?

    The voice of NO, inner critic

    Goals too big

    Not asking for help and support

    Faulty thinking such as I just ran out of time
    to do that the deception of
    procrastination.

    Fearfrozen en garde.
Self-deprecating
Micromovements
Alone (+Allies, Aligned)
Rationalizing
procrastination
Terrified
Self-Deprecation
Negative self-talk
Belittling or undervaluing oneself;
 excessively modest.
Having a tendency to disparage oneself
  Latin deprecatus, past participle of deprecari to avert
   by prayer, from de- + precari to pray. To pray against
   (as an evil).
Why would you pray against yourself!?
  This person is unworthy and bad; please do not let
   them be successful. Amen.
Micromovements
Join Chamber of Commerce
        occurs after:
Make initial contact (phone, stop-in, email)
Read information packet
Determine cost vs benefit
Ask follow up questions
Write check
Mail check
Alone
Who knows about your specific
 goals?
Who are you making yourself
 accountable to?
Are you reaching out when you
 become afraid and uncertain?
Are you picking the brains of
 professionals?
Allies
First step of the journey
Examine your circle of influence
Who needs to be kicked out?
  Naysayers, abusers, pessimists
Who should to be invited in?
  Professionals, cheerleaders, avid supporters,
   holders of information
Who can mentor or inspire you?
Guidance from beyond
Aligned
What is your cause?
Why are you doing what you are
 doing?
What great gifts do you have to
 offer the world?
Moral and spiritual compass
Faith, purpose, hope
Rationalizing Procrastination
              Instead of
      I ran out of time today,
                  try
This action intimidates me and makes
 me feel overwhelmed. What do I need
            to do about it?
Terrified
Id think so! Whatever has stopped you in your tracks
  is very scary! Most people you know wouldnt choose
                 to do it in a million years!
Fear is limbic
Its that physiological terror that lets you know youre
 alive and want to stay that way.
What we are looking for is not so much the meaning
 of life, but the experience of being alive. --Joseph
 Campbell
   (whether we know it or not!)
 Feel the Fear and Do it AnywaySusan Jeffers, PhD
Bravery--heroes are not
 fearless. They are brave.
 They also wear 400 pounds of armor.
 Or they have magic powers.

All we really need is an ego of
 steel and an army of emotional
 tools to protect it.
Thank you!

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Be SMART-er than your resistance -success in goal-setting

  • 1. Be SMARTer Than Your Resistance Success in Goal- Setting
  • 2. What you will learn today SMART goal-setting Micromovements How we get in our own way SMART ways to manage your resistance
  • 3. SMART Goal Setting Specific Measurable Action-oriented Realistic Time-bound think in terms of micromovements
  • 4. Barriers to Success-- How do we get in our own way? The voice of NO, inner critic Goals too big Not asking for help and support Faulty thinking such as I just ran out of time to do that the deception of procrastination. Fearfrozen en garde.
  • 6. Self-Deprecation Negative self-talk Belittling or undervaluing oneself; excessively modest. Having a tendency to disparage oneself Latin deprecatus, past participle of deprecari to avert by prayer, from de- + precari to pray. To pray against (as an evil). Why would you pray against yourself!? This person is unworthy and bad; please do not let them be successful. Amen.
  • 7. Micromovements Join Chamber of Commerce occurs after: Make initial contact (phone, stop-in, email) Read information packet Determine cost vs benefit Ask follow up questions Write check Mail check
  • 8. Alone Who knows about your specific goals? Who are you making yourself accountable to? Are you reaching out when you become afraid and uncertain? Are you picking the brains of professionals?
  • 9. Allies First step of the journey Examine your circle of influence Who needs to be kicked out? Naysayers, abusers, pessimists Who should to be invited in? Professionals, cheerleaders, avid supporters, holders of information Who can mentor or inspire you? Guidance from beyond
  • 10. Aligned What is your cause? Why are you doing what you are doing? What great gifts do you have to offer the world? Moral and spiritual compass Faith, purpose, hope
  • 11. Rationalizing Procrastination Instead of I ran out of time today, try This action intimidates me and makes me feel overwhelmed. What do I need to do about it?
  • 12. Terrified Id think so! Whatever has stopped you in your tracks is very scary! Most people you know wouldnt choose to do it in a million years! Fear is limbic Its that physiological terror that lets you know youre alive and want to stay that way. What we are looking for is not so much the meaning of life, but the experience of being alive. --Joseph Campbell (whether we know it or not!) Feel the Fear and Do it AnywaySusan Jeffers, PhD
  • 13. Bravery--heroes are not fearless. They are brave. They also wear 400 pounds of armor. Or they have magic powers. All we really need is an ego of steel and an army of emotional tools to protect it.