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                                                                       by: Barbra Ramos
 alone.
  I dont want to feel
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Im agine you are b eing bullied at school or that life feels l a terrib l struggle that you cant
                                                             ike        e
     seem to win against.

Its not that hard to im agine, is it?

Teens and kid s everywhere, esp ecially lesbian, gay, b isexual transgend er and questioning
                                                              ,
    youth, face these kind s of problem s.

Yet, they feel alone.
They feel like no one und erstand s them .



The IT GETS BETTER PROJECT
 tries to change that with the power
 of personal stories.
BRamos - It Gets Better
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It GETS BETTER
With over 40,000 vid eos like this one by Tim Gunn, cel
                                                      ebrities, politicians, artists,
   and non-celebrities/everyd ay peopl share their stories. They talk about how
                                        e
   theyve fel growing up to give som e value and truth to the proj
             t                                                      ects m antra
   of It Gets Better.
It Gets Better takes peopl personal life stories, particularly ad ul and
                          es                                      ts,
    through their l experience and structuring of their personal life stories as
                  ife
    they have grown to m ake sense of what they have end ured and been
    through, they give hope to youth in need of inspiration and support.
Id entity [ ] is an integrative configuration of self-in-the-ad ul
                                                                   t-world  (M cAd am s,
     2001 ) and whom better to help you und erstand your sel your id entity, and
                                                                    f,
     the world we all live in, but the ad ults who have m ad e it through and
     survived al the struggl and pain?
                 l            es
Understanding the world
As Rose (201 1 ) said , storytel is the sim ple act of sharing and It Gets
                                ling
   Better is a perfect exam ple of personal sharing and storytell to bring
                                                                  ing
   about social change.
The stories told by people reflect their realities and these life narratives
   obviousl reflect the prevailing theories about possible l
             y                                                 ives that are part of
   one's culture (Bruner, 2oo4).
The stories shared by those in It Gets Better speak about a d ifferent future than
   the ones m ost im agine when they are stuck in feelings of d epression, loss,
   fear, and anger. It helps them to real that better possibilities exist.
                                        ize
It GETS BETTER with technology
The proj takes ad vantage of the d igital age and em erging m ed ia technologies
       ect
   to connect peopl and their stories with the rest of the world .
                  e


This Open-Source Model of bringing together stories also d em onstrates
    voluntary cooperation as participants wil y post vid eos of them selves to
                                            lingl
    help others.


D an Savage, creator of It Gets Better, found the Internet and social m ed ia as
    the perfect m eans to get his m essage across.
 M r. Savage had blogged about the suicid e [of Bil Lucas], and a read er had
                                                      ly
written: M y heart breaks for the pain and torm ent you went through, Billy
Lucas. I wish I could have told you that things get better.

M r. Savage said he felt the sam e way. But how to tel them ? He gives tal at
                                                         l                 ks
colleges regularly, but not at m id d le schools or high school I would never get
                                                              s.
perm ission, he said , blam ing a system of parents, preachers and teachers
who bel  ieve they can terrorize gay chil ren out of being gay as they grow up.
                                            d

His real
       ization was this: I was waiting for perm ission that  in the era of
YouTube, Twitter, Facebook  I d id nt need anym ore.

                                                                     (Stelter, 201 0)
CONVERGENCE
The cross-integration of It Gets Better on d ifferent social m ed ia platform s, as wel as
                                                                                       l
    events and trad itional m ed ia such as television (M TV and LO GO ) and publ    ished
    books allows for an transm ed ia storytelling experience in which peopl can take part in
                                                                                e
    m any d ifferent ways.
Convergence
This proj shows signs of convergence, which allows for m ovem ent and creation from al
         ect                                                                                  l
     points of entry and inevitably relies on the actions aud iences take as they are given a
     sense of networked ind ivid ualism , where they are allowed to d ecid e whether and how
     to participate (Joinson et al, 2007).
In this d igital environm ent, people find that there are m ore opportunities to tap into and
     util not only their own social capital, personal experiences, and inform ational
        ize
     resources, but also those of others around the world (J    oinson et al 2007).
                                                                            .,
From this proj com es a wealth of personal experiences and resources to hel youth get
             ect                                                          p
    through these hard tim es, as m ore and m ore people take the pl ge.
                                                                   ed
The it gets better pledge


Everyone deserves to be respected for who
they are. I pledge to spread this message to
my friends, family and neighbors. I'll speak
 up against hate and intolerance whenever
 I see it, at school and at work. I'll provide
  hope for lesbian, gay, bi, trans and other
 bullied teens by letting them know that
It gets

better.
REferences
Bruner J (2004) Life as Narrative. Social Research, 71 (3).
     , .,
Joinson, A., McKenna, K. Y A., Postm es, T., & Reips, U.-D . (Ed s.). (2007). The Oxfor Handbook of Int netPsychol
                            .                                                          d              er         ogy.
      O xford : O xford University Press., C hapter 1 2.
McAd am s, D . (2001 ). The psychology of life stories. Review of General Psychol
                                                                                ogy, 5(2), 1 00-1 22. d oi: 1 089-2680/01
 Rose, F (2011 ). Art of Im m ersion. (pp. 36-37). N ew Y
        .                                                ork: W.W. N orton & C om pany.
Stelter B. (201 0, O ct 9). C am paign offers help to gay youths. New Yor Times. Retrieved from :
      ,                                                                  k
      http:/ www.nytim es.com / 0/ 0/ 9/ 1 9vid eo.htm l
            /                     201 1 1 us/
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BRamos - It Gets Better

  • 1. T S E ER G T t It ET c on e je t al no B ro e ar u : Yo ES RI P O ST N G RI S HA by: Barbra Ramos
  • 2. alone. I dont want to feel
  • 4. Im agine you are b eing bullied at school or that life feels l a terrib l struggle that you cant ike e seem to win against. Its not that hard to im agine, is it? Teens and kid s everywhere, esp ecially lesbian, gay, b isexual transgend er and questioning , youth, face these kind s of problem s. Yet, they feel alone. They feel like no one und erstand s them . The IT GETS BETTER PROJECT tries to change that with the power of personal stories.
  • 6. T i m G u n you are not n . L a d y P alone. G ae gtr ao .a li c Ke
  • 7. It GETS BETTER With over 40,000 vid eos like this one by Tim Gunn, cel ebrities, politicians, artists, and non-celebrities/everyd ay peopl share their stories. They talk about how e theyve fel growing up to give som e value and truth to the proj t ects m antra of It Gets Better. It Gets Better takes peopl personal life stories, particularly ad ul and es ts, through their l experience and structuring of their personal life stories as ife they have grown to m ake sense of what they have end ured and been through, they give hope to youth in need of inspiration and support. Id entity [ ] is an integrative configuration of self-in-the-ad ul t-world (M cAd am s, 2001 ) and whom better to help you und erstand your sel your id entity, and f, the world we all live in, but the ad ults who have m ad e it through and survived al the struggl and pain? l es
  • 8. Understanding the world As Rose (201 1 ) said , storytel is the sim ple act of sharing and It Gets ling Better is a perfect exam ple of personal sharing and storytell to bring ing about social change. The stories told by people reflect their realities and these life narratives obviousl reflect the prevailing theories about possible l y ives that are part of one's culture (Bruner, 2oo4). The stories shared by those in It Gets Better speak about a d ifferent future than the ones m ost im agine when they are stuck in feelings of d epression, loss, fear, and anger. It helps them to real that better possibilities exist. ize
  • 9. It GETS BETTER with technology The proj takes ad vantage of the d igital age and em erging m ed ia technologies ect to connect peopl and their stories with the rest of the world . e This Open-Source Model of bringing together stories also d em onstrates voluntary cooperation as participants wil y post vid eos of them selves to lingl help others. D an Savage, creator of It Gets Better, found the Internet and social m ed ia as the perfect m eans to get his m essage across.
  • 10. M r. Savage had blogged about the suicid e [of Bil Lucas], and a read er had ly written: M y heart breaks for the pain and torm ent you went through, Billy Lucas. I wish I could have told you that things get better. M r. Savage said he felt the sam e way. But how to tel them ? He gives tal at l ks colleges regularly, but not at m id d le schools or high school I would never get s. perm ission, he said , blam ing a system of parents, preachers and teachers who bel ieve they can terrorize gay chil ren out of being gay as they grow up. d His real ization was this: I was waiting for perm ission that in the era of YouTube, Twitter, Facebook I d id nt need anym ore. (Stelter, 201 0)
  • 11. CONVERGENCE The cross-integration of It Gets Better on d ifferent social m ed ia platform s, as wel as l events and trad itional m ed ia such as television (M TV and LO GO ) and publ ished books allows for an transm ed ia storytelling experience in which peopl can take part in e m any d ifferent ways.
  • 12. Convergence This proj shows signs of convergence, which allows for m ovem ent and creation from al ect l points of entry and inevitably relies on the actions aud iences take as they are given a sense of networked ind ivid ualism , where they are allowed to d ecid e whether and how to participate (Joinson et al, 2007). In this d igital environm ent, people find that there are m ore opportunities to tap into and util not only their own social capital, personal experiences, and inform ational ize resources, but also those of others around the world (J oinson et al 2007). ., From this proj com es a wealth of personal experiences and resources to hel youth get ect p through these hard tim es, as m ore and m ore people take the pl ge. ed
  • 13. The it gets better pledge Everyone deserves to be respected for who they are. I pledge to spread this message to my friends, family and neighbors. I'll speak up against hate and intolerance whenever I see it, at school and at work. I'll provide hope for lesbian, gay, bi, trans and other bullied teens by letting them know that
  • 15. REferences Bruner J (2004) Life as Narrative. Social Research, 71 (3). , ., Joinson, A., McKenna, K. Y A., Postm es, T., & Reips, U.-D . (Ed s.). (2007). The Oxfor Handbook of Int netPsychol . d er ogy. O xford : O xford University Press., C hapter 1 2. McAd am s, D . (2001 ). The psychology of life stories. Review of General Psychol ogy, 5(2), 1 00-1 22. d oi: 1 089-2680/01 Rose, F (2011 ). Art of Im m ersion. (pp. 36-37). N ew Y . ork: W.W. N orton & C om pany. Stelter B. (201 0, O ct 9). C am paign offers help to gay youths. New Yor Times. Retrieved from : , k http:/ www.nytim es.com / 0/ 0/ 9/ 1 9vid eo.htm l / 201 1 1 us/