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Intergenerational Resilience
Care, Communicate, Connect, and Celebrate
Patricia Morgan
Empowering one another!
My first
generation.
Parent to the
next generation.
Grandparent
to the next.
Intergenerational Resilience: Care, Communicate, Connect and Celebrate
BIAS
conservative and tech ignorant
Older or Younger?
conservative and tech ignorant
Older!
lazy and entitled
Older or Younger?
lazy and entitled
Younger!
Intergenerational Resilience: Care, Communicate, Connect and Celebrate
The children now love luxury; they have
bad manners, contempt for authority; they
show disrespect for elders and love
chatter in place of exercise. Children are
now tyrants, not the servants of their
households. They no longer rise when
elders enter the room.
What year was this grumble made?
2000 1864 BC
2001 1864 BC
Socrates
469-399 B.C.
Millennials 24 -- 40 years old
Boomers 66 -- 74 years old
Intergenerational Resilience: Care, Communicate, Connect and Celebrate
Intergenerational Resilience: Care, Communicate, Connect and Celebrate
Intergenerational Trauma
A term which asserts that trauma can be
transferred between generations.
The bond that links your true family is not one
of blood, but of respect and joy in others life.
Richard Bach
Choosefamilyifyourbio-
familycontinuestowound.
Intergenerational Resilience
A term which asserts that positive self-identify
can be transferred between generations.
The Four Cs of Intergenerational Resilience
Care
Intergenerational Resilience: Care, Communicate, Connect and Celebrate
2) Appreciate.
3) Reciprocate.
Communicate
1) Use different types of
communication.
Write and mail a letter.
Hi dear,
Just wondering whats happening.
Love, Grandma
Note:
Emojis communicate emotions.
Hear the tone, pace and
emotions of the voice.
Hear, see,
connect.
Sense energy,
smell,
feel the vibe,
and TOUCH!
2) Acknowledge differences in values and motivations.
3)Ask.
Dont assume.
4) Get curious without invading.
5. Be willing to teach and be taught.
Ask for advice.
Intergenerational Resilience: Care, Communicate, Connect and Celebrate
marriage, work, parenthood
Before? or After?
When are younger generations interested in ADVICE concerning . . .
marriage, work, parenthood
Research by T. Brubaker & E. Brubaker
After!
Intergenerational Resilience: Care, Communicate, Connect and Celebrate
6. Minimize conflict.
Blamer Rescuer
Victim
Karpmans Drama Triangle Niece
Jane
Uncle
Joe
Grandma
Sally
Blamer to
Challenger
Rescuer to
Coach
Victim to
Survivor &Thriver
Karpmans Drama Triangle
https://www.solutionsforresilience.com/relationship-drama
Connect
1. Take time to connect with yourself.
Intergenerational Resilience: Care, Communicate, Connect and Celebrate
2. Create bonds by activating the
love and trust hormone,
OXYTOCIN
1) Listen with soft eyes.
2) Share a meal.
3) Use social media and technology
to connect, not disconnect.
Intergenerational Resilience: Care, Communicate, Connect and Celebrate
4) Say it!
I love you!
5) Give and
receive hugs.
6) Hold family
meetings.
SolutionsForResilience.com/family-meetings
Celebrate
Grate-full!
1. Count your blessings.
2.Acknowledge
family virtues
and strengths.
3. Celebrate special days.
Intergenerational Resilience: Care, Communicate, Connect and Celebrate
Intergenerational Resilience: Care, Communicate, Connect and Celebrate
Intergenerational Resilience: Care, Communicate, Connect and Celebrate
4. Play together
to stay together.
5. Smile,
laugh and
get silly.
BE the resilience you want
in the generations!
BONUS
patricia@SolutionsForResilience.com
Email requesting Intergenerational Resilience Guide
Intergenerational Resilience
Care, Communicate, Connect, and Celebrate
Patricia Morgan

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