Lessons From Marriage
- 1. Marriage Lessons By Joseph Kashiwagi
- 2. Married at 22 The Good Life October 12, 2013
- 3. Expectations What should be! Characteristics of a Wife: Love Cooking Love House Work Be supportive of all my decisions Be happy that Im working for our family
- 4. Observation of Reality First Month Six months 1 Year I understand you were busy, so I got us food!Why isnt there dinner? She should have made dinner! Honey you are the best! You deserve a back massage. Reasons
- 5. Releasing Control I always make sure to check pockets when doing laundry! I dont check pockets when doing laundry, so take pens out! Make sure to check pockets when doing laundry! Make sure to take out pens from your shirts! I hope you learned your lesson! First Month Six months 1 Year This will teach her to check the pockets! She is doing this on purpose! I learned my lesson .(no comment)
- 6. Learn to Relax First Month Six months 1 Year Honey, I think you should do your homework instead of going to Zumba. Dont go out! I know you are going to get sick! Have a great time at the one direction concert even though you are pregnant! I told you so! Next time you should listen to me. Now I need to take care of you because you wanted to go out! That is too bad. I had a great time sleeping instead. ArgumentFight
- 7. Know When to Talk Family situation. What do you think about it? First Month Six months 1 Year Opinion of the situation. Family situation. What do you think about it? Lets not talk about it because we always end up fighting. No its okay I can handle what you have to say! No I really dont want to talk about it Family situation. What do you think about it? That is a tough situation. I agree with you. Angry Happy
- 8. Reality She is perfect for me My wife : Loving Personality Extremely Laid back Great with kids Big Heart Spoiled Dont like Cooking Myself : Love people Easy Going Fun with kids Understanding Spoiled Dont like cooking
- 9. Accepting myself The problem wasnt that my wife didnt live up to my expectations but I didnt live up to my own expectations. My wife helped me to realize that I need to accept my self regardless of the weakness or strengths that I possess
- 10. For a Happy Life Observe (Perceive Information) Release Control Learn to Relax Know When to Talk Accept Reality Forgive & Accept Yourself