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Ideal Future Exercise
1.
Pre-Wired for Empathy
Theres a reason our brains make us do crazy things...
Mirror Neurons
Brain cells that fire both when someone is
performing an activity and ALSO when he/she
watches another person perform the same
activity.
Empathy
 Listen intently with full attention, try to understand problems at a
cognitive and emotional level and does it all with kindness
 Essentially mimic the other person
 Make tough decisions with empathy
 Every time you see another person, wish for them to be happy
Negotiations exercise
The five Dysfunctions of a Team
Absence of Trust
Fear of Conflict
Lack of Commitment
Avoidance of
accountability
Inattention
to Results
Discussion Question #1
What are things we can do to establish trust and avoid the five
dysfunctions of a team?
Assume everyone is here
to serve the greater
good
Three assumptions
Assume that none of us
has any hidden agenda
Assume that we are all
reasonable even when
we disagree
Search Inside yourself Part 3
Praising people skillfully
You are
so smart
How can
you make
that
better?
Genuine
Process Praise
(You must have
worked hard)
Encourage a
growth mindset
Discussion Question #2
How can Regina George improve her compliment?
What elements go into giving a good compliment that praises people
skillfully?
2.
Being effective and loved
How to be a great, caring boss
How do we find out what makes the worlds best boss?
Youre hilarious and you get the best out
of us -Michael Scott
After reading Chapter 8, what advice do
you have for Michael Scott on how to be a
more effective boss?
A Cognitive Component:
 I understand you
Leading with compassion
An Affective Component:
 I feel for you
A Motivational Component:
 I want to help you I WE
Primary rewards or threats
STATUS
 Threats of status
can easily be
triggered
 Play against
yourself and
challenge your
personal bests
CERTAINTY
 Uncertainty
creates an error
response in
your brain that
cant be ignored
until they are
resolved
 Takes away
resources from
other aspects
AUTONOMY
 Perception of
exerting
control over
ones
environment
 Feeling
helpless in
times of stress
RELATEDNESS
 Perception of
whether
another person
is a friend or a
foe
 Need quality
and quantity of
social
connections
FAIRNESS
 People may
sacrifice their
own self-
interest for
punishment of
unfairness
Mindful E-mailing
How to stop reading too much into the emotions
of an email
Brain makes
stuff up and
believes it
Lose entire
mechanism
for
communicati
ng feelings
There is
another
human on
the receiving
end
E-mails that
arent
supposed to
be scary
become
scary
Issues and resolution
3.
Three Easy Steps to
World Peace
The process is easy
Start with
Me
Make
meditation
a field of
science
Align
meditation
with real
life
Any other
questions?

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Search Inside yourself Part 3

  • 3. 1. Pre-Wired for Empathy Theres a reason our brains make us do crazy things...
  • 4. Mirror Neurons Brain cells that fire both when someone is performing an activity and ALSO when he/she watches another person perform the same activity.
  • 5. Empathy Listen intently with full attention, try to understand problems at a cognitive and emotional level and does it all with kindness Essentially mimic the other person Make tough decisions with empathy Every time you see another person, wish for them to be happy
  • 7. The five Dysfunctions of a Team Absence of Trust Fear of Conflict Lack of Commitment Avoidance of accountability Inattention to Results
  • 8. Discussion Question #1 What are things we can do to establish trust and avoid the five dysfunctions of a team?
  • 9. Assume everyone is here to serve the greater good Three assumptions Assume that none of us has any hidden agenda Assume that we are all reasonable even when we disagree
  • 11. Praising people skillfully You are so smart How can you make that better? Genuine Process Praise (You must have worked hard) Encourage a growth mindset
  • 12. Discussion Question #2 How can Regina George improve her compliment? What elements go into giving a good compliment that praises people skillfully?
  • 13. 2. Being effective and loved How to be a great, caring boss
  • 14. How do we find out what makes the worlds best boss? Youre hilarious and you get the best out of us -Michael Scott After reading Chapter 8, what advice do you have for Michael Scott on how to be a more effective boss?
  • 15. A Cognitive Component: I understand you Leading with compassion An Affective Component: I feel for you A Motivational Component: I want to help you I WE
  • 16. Primary rewards or threats STATUS Threats of status can easily be triggered Play against yourself and challenge your personal bests CERTAINTY Uncertainty creates an error response in your brain that cant be ignored until they are resolved Takes away resources from other aspects AUTONOMY Perception of exerting control over ones environment Feeling helpless in times of stress RELATEDNESS Perception of whether another person is a friend or a foe Need quality and quantity of social connections FAIRNESS People may sacrifice their own self- interest for punishment of unfairness
  • 17. Mindful E-mailing How to stop reading too much into the emotions of an email
  • 18. Brain makes stuff up and believes it Lose entire mechanism for communicati ng feelings There is another human on the receiving end E-mails that arent supposed to be scary become scary Issues and resolution
  • 19. 3. Three Easy Steps to World Peace
  • 20. The process is easy Start with Me Make meditation a field of science Align meditation with real life