My Mother Is Having An Affair
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The teenager discovered through a love message on their mother's phone that she is having an affair with a man who also moved to their new country. Their father remains in their home country unable to get a visa. The teenager is unsure what to do as the affair goes against their culture and religion. The response advises the teenager not to judge their mother, as people can change and affairs often happen after marriages breakdown, with both partners equally responsible. The teenager is told to observe how their parents deal with the situation before deciding what is best for them, and to not blame or judge either parent.
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My Mother Is Having An Affair
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- 2. http://www.elsabesmit.com Question: I am a teenager My mom and I moved to this country a year ago My dad stayed behind because he could not get a visa
- 3. http://www.elsabesmit.com We were still at the airport when I saw a love message on my moms phone from another man back in our country
- 4. http://www.elsabesmit.com Then I discovered this man had also moved to our new country and he lives nearby My mom did not tell me but I know they meet often My dad knows nothing
- 5. http://www.elsabesmit.com My dad still does not have a visa What she is doing is against our culture and religion What must I do?
- 6. http://www.elsabesmit.com Answer: Marriage is meant to last forever But people change This even happens in a culture where the dream of a life-long happy marriage is cherished
- 7. http://www.elsabesmit.com Do not judge your mother People tend to have an affair long after the marriage broke down The husband and wife each carry 50% of the marriage
- 8. http://www.elsabesmit.com Both are equally responsible for any breakdown Your mother may feel she has no option other than to have an affair
- 9. http://www.elsabesmit.com Rather observe how both your parents deal with the situation Then decide what is right for you
- 10. http://www.elsabesmit.com Once you have decided, you may later change your decision based on your own life experiences
- 11. http://www.elsabesmit.com Your parents both love you and want the best for you Dont blame or judge either of them