Smoking And A Young Husband
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The woman is considering giving up smoking as she gets married but is unsure about doing so. Her fianc辿 thinks her smoking is romantic but she doesn't want him to start. They have an age difference and different experiences with relationships and sex. The advice is that she is using smoking as an excuse to avoid confronting deeper doubts and issues. She needs clarity on whether she is marrying a soulmate or just wanting to feel good, and whether the relationship is between equals or if she sees herself as a parent figure. Facing her fears with honesty will help her decide whether to quit smoking and get married.
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- 1. Smoking And a Young Husband http://www.elsabesmit.com
- 2. http://www.elsabesmit.com Question: I am getting married and want to give up smoking My fianc辿 thinks my smoking is romantic I dont want him to start smoking
- 3. http://www.elsabesmit.com I am much older than him and dont want to be a bad influence We are very happy despite the age difference Our Christian faith is very important to us
- 4. http://www.elsabesmit.com We are saving sex for marriage I have only had sex with my late husband My fianc辿 has never had sex What if our expectations are not met?
- 5. http://www.elsabesmit.com Answer: You are hiding behind the smoke screen because you dont want to confront the issues
- 6. http://www.elsabesmit.com You have made rules to regulate the things you dont want to deal with Your rules are failing The absence of cigarettes does not guarantee love
- 7. http://www.elsabesmit.com Sex is always meaningful with a person you share love with Sex is not a test that you can fail
- 8. http://www.elsabesmit.com You blame the cigarettes for your other doubts You need to face your doubts before you get married
- 9. http://www.elsabesmit.com Scenario 1: You marry your soulmate and want to share your life with him You are emotionally and mentally on the same level despite the age difference
- 10. http://www.elsabesmit.com He is mature enough to make his own decisions
- 11. http://www.elsabesmit.com Scenario 2: You are marrying a boy half your age because it feels good You want to be a good parent and wife and help him grow up
- 12. http://www.elsabesmit.com Which scenario applies to you? You need to get clarity before marrying him
- 13. http://www.elsabesmit.com You dont need to prove love by giving up cigarettes Be honest with yourself and then you can give up smoking for your own health
- 14. http://www.elsabesmit.com Face your deepest fears, whether you get married or not You will survive