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How Do I Deal With
A Messy Boyfriend?
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Question:
• My boyfriend and I have a two-
year-old son
• We both work full-time
• I have to cook and clean and be
a parent
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• My boyfriend does not help
because he is too tired from
work
• He does not clean up after
himself
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• I have no time to relax
• What should I do?
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Answer
• With a child your world does get
messy
• Adults share the mess and the
work 100%
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• Tell your boyfriend his lack of
consideration is smothering
your relationship
• This is affecting your child when
you are too tired
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• If he does not want to do his
share, he must pay someone to
help you
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• If he does not change, ask
yourself whether you want to
stay in the relationship
• Look after yourself first, so that
you have energy for your child
and relationship
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• Do things you enjoy with your
son
• Your boyfriend needs to act like
an adult
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