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Who NOT to be at a 
Networking Event 
by Peter Trombetti 
Oficio Group
Importance of a First 
Impression 
Your introduction is the first thing someone thinks 
about you 
Its a make or break moment with that potential 
connection 
It sets the stage for all your future interactions 
Networking events usually allow for only quick 
interactions and introductions. So dont be one of 
these guys
The Name Dropper 
Dont immediately go into who you know 
Comes across as disingenuous. 
Do you want them to remember your name? Or 
the people youve met?
The Card Dropper 
Dropping your card off 
is not an introduction 
People are not going to 
keep that card without 
knowing who you are 
Comes across as rushed 
an impersonal
The Assumer 
Dont always hand out 2 cards to one person. Its 
presumptuous and assumes they are going to 
pass it on 
Get to know that person first, then ask them for 
referrals when you have established a 
relationship
Rambling Man 
Dont get overexcited 
No one wants to hear you lifes story 
Or the story of how you got to the meeting 
Or how you met your spouse
The Limp Fish 
No one likes a weak 
handshake 
It can come across as 
weak and/or 
unprofessional 
Practice a firm, yet no 
overzealous, handshake
The Steamroller 
The opposite of the limp 
fish, the aggressor comes 
across as over confident 
Dont barrel your way 
through the crowd and 
steamroll other peoples 
conversations 
Be respectful and jump 
in when the moment is 
right
The Technology Zombie 
Dont spend all night on your phone 
It comes across as aloof and unapproachable 
Pay attention and leave your phone in your 
pocket 
If you have to be available via email or phone, 
check it as infrequently as possible
Thank you!

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Peter Trombetti - Bad Networking

  • 1. Who NOT to be at a Networking Event by Peter Trombetti Oficio Group
  • 2. Importance of a First Impression Your introduction is the first thing someone thinks about you Its a make or break moment with that potential connection It sets the stage for all your future interactions Networking events usually allow for only quick interactions and introductions. So dont be one of these guys
  • 3. The Name Dropper Dont immediately go into who you know Comes across as disingenuous. Do you want them to remember your name? Or the people youve met?
  • 4. The Card Dropper Dropping your card off is not an introduction People are not going to keep that card without knowing who you are Comes across as rushed an impersonal
  • 5. The Assumer Dont always hand out 2 cards to one person. Its presumptuous and assumes they are going to pass it on Get to know that person first, then ask them for referrals when you have established a relationship
  • 6. Rambling Man Dont get overexcited No one wants to hear you lifes story Or the story of how you got to the meeting Or how you met your spouse
  • 7. The Limp Fish No one likes a weak handshake It can come across as weak and/or unprofessional Practice a firm, yet no overzealous, handshake
  • 8. The Steamroller The opposite of the limp fish, the aggressor comes across as over confident Dont barrel your way through the crowd and steamroll other peoples conversations Be respectful and jump in when the moment is right
  • 9. The Technology Zombie Dont spend all night on your phone It comes across as aloof and unapproachable Pay attention and leave your phone in your pocket If you have to be available via email or phone, check it as infrequently as possible